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The unthinkable happens. Whether it’s a life-threatening diagnosis, the death of a loved one or a heartbreaking tragedy — the experience of devastating loss touches us all.
The challenge is that many of us have a hard time finding words of comfort, or even know what to say when someone dies. Heartfelt, genuine condolence messages aren’t simple to express.
In a world where we often learn about such shattering news via text, email or even social media — our responses can be awkward at best and non-existent at worst.
I’ve been wanting to do this for a while now because I believe that people have so much more love and compassion in their hearts than they’re often able to express.
But that’s understandable, because most of us haven’t been taught what to say when someone dies or suffers a loss. And too many of us stay silent because we’re afraid of saying the wrong thing.
If you’ve ever struggled to write a condolence message, a sympathy message or find words of comfort for a friend or loved one, this episode is for you.Never let your fear of saying the wrong thing, stop you from saying something. Click To Tweet
You’ll learn exactly what to say (and not say) when tragedy strikes. You’ll learn the right words of comfort to truly support someone in way that’s genuine and not trite or, worse, unknowingly offensive.
While the advice in this episode isn’t exhaustive, it does provide concrete guidance to make sure that your intention of offering genuine love, comfort and support is well received.
My hope is that if you ever feel at a loss for words, struggle to write a condolence message or feel unsure of how to best show your love and support for a friend who’s grieving — this episode will be one you come back to.
Now, I’d love to hear from you. If you have some other do’s and don’ts to share from your experience, put them directly in the comments below.
If you share a don’t, please do so with love and compassion.
Most people have their heart in the right place, but as you know — we all make mistakes. Especially if we haven’t experienced that situation ourselves.
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Thank you so much for reading, watching and diving into the discussion.
I’m truly grateful for the supportive, inspiring and consistently insightful conversations that unfold here.
With all my love,