Marie Forleo introduction

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Before we get to today’s special feature…

Thank you for the gargantuan buckets of love and support you showed The Compassion Collective’s Mother’s day campaign. Ready for this?

In just a few short days… we raised $560,853!!! That is SO beyond incredible. I’ll keep you posted on how those funds will be put to use so you can see for yourself the lives YOU helped change.

This week, we’ve got something else special for you — the talk I gave at Oprah’s SuperSoul Sessions event.

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I was so honored to be a part of a full day that included incredible speakers and endless aha moments.

I’m so grateful I had the chance to do this, and I truly hope you’ll enjoy it. And if you’ve ever have the mistaken idea that I always ‘have it all together’ — this one’s for you.

You can watch my talk in its entirety below. (Note, the great folks at OWN allowed us to embed our talk from their platform, so you’ll see a short advertisement at the beginning.)

Once you’ve had a chance to watch, I’d love to know.

What’s your answer to my question at the end of my talk: If you held this deep conviction to be true, that everything really is figureoutable…

What would you do?  Who would you become? What would you heal or transform or transcend?

Leave a comment below and let me know.

And, share as much detail as possible in your reply.

Thousands of incredible souls come here each week for insight and inspiration and your story may be exactly what someone else needs to move ahead.

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Thank you so much for reading, watching and sharing with such warmth and gusto.

I am so deeply grateful for you. More than you’ll ever know.

With all my love,

XO

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  1. “What we need now, more than anything else, is people who believe in what’s possible.”

    AY-MEN!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      YES! 🙂

      • I think I know on a cellular level that everything actually is figureoutable, it’s just my mindset that takes a little time to catch up sometimes.

        But if that didn’t hinder me at times I KNOW I would be bolder and more brazen in life. From my relationships with my friends, family and my partner, to the tasks and activities I do on a daily basis, to my business. I wouldn’t hold back knowing that whatever came out me, no matter how difficult or challenging, it was figureoutable.

        Oversized pinatas and all 😉

        xx

        • Karen

          Thank you from the bottom of my heart for YOU Marie Forleo 🤗
          It’s no coincidence I found your site. My Dearest Sister in-Law who I owe this HUGE Gratitude to for literally saving my life through a Paired Organ Exchange. My struggles to regain my health took me 2 years. I am Eternally Grateful for a third chance to learn to change my life by your videos and meditations. Thank you Denise Little for forever changing my life. 🙏😇

    • Jamie

      That’s the same quote I wrote down while watching 🙂

      • ^_^ It was all compelling but I mos-def felt that was the winner-winner-chicken-dinner.

        [So much so that I forgot the beautiful Qs at the end of the article.]

        To address – I’m becoming a Spiritual Sherpa and helping to be initiated into sacred healing ranks!

      • Nina

        Such an important believe. I’m not fully there yet but I have experienced glimps of believing everything is figureoutable and it was powefull moments. When I hold on to this thought it makes it so much easier to put action behind my ideas and jump into uncertanty with faith and trust in myself and in life.

    • I didn’t write it down during the video, so now I am happily copying it from you to my ‘inspiration’ quotes :). Thanks Steph!

    • So true!

  2. You totally owned that stage, Marie. Way to get up there and give people ‘the goods’. [Insert golf clap] 🙂

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Todd, yes — all the golf claps 🙂 Thank you so much for watching, and it’s lovely to see your name in the comments today!

    • Right! I felt riding the wave with her! This is such an honor to witness so much heart!

    • Thanks Todd 🙂

  3. Lisa Sneed

    Marie! I simply love you. Your words are truly comforting and relatable. I love the new video. Just the other day I put a picture quote on my phone that says “Everything is Figureoutable” so needless to say I really connected with this one:)

  4. Oh my goodness this is the exact remedy for my life right now. Going from chaos to redefining order in my life after an abusive attack. This is my mantra through and through. <3 You make me feel at home.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Bernard, we’re so glad to hear that this was just the remedy you needed at the moment. Know that we’re sending so much love your way, and we love having you in our world <3

      • I appreciate it so much so! I’m taking every day in honor and reverence! Here’s too a Figureoutable lifestyle! #buythetshirt haha

  5. I think on a deep level, I feel that everything is figuroutable. But sometimes on the surface I forget, get frustrated and blow a fuse lol! I think if I always remembered this I would see the million dollar mark sooner rather than the five years I have planned. I would stop letting my husband, daughter, fears, or lack of confidence stand in the way. Thank you for the reminder Marie, sometimes we need that kick in the ass “you can do it… figure it out” kind of thing! Congrats to you for being on stage with Oprah, you are killing it girl!!

    • Correction: my husband and daughter don’t stand in the way, they are just an excuse I use….

      • Caroline - Team Forleo

        I so hear you on that, Maryanne. It’s especially tricky when our brain comes up with excuses that don’t necessarily look like “excuses.”

        Being frustrated sometimes is totally okay — I always think of the ups and downs as just part of the process, and definitely trust that inner wisdom you have that KNOWS it’s all figuroutable! We’re cheering you on 🙂

      • Nice adjustment Maryanne 🙂 XO

  6. Angela

    Hi Marie, I was captivated by your talk, thank you for sharing it. While I feel I can figure out what I need to do in most cases, it’s the “doing it” that frightens me. I allow fear of everything (rejection, judgement, failure) stop me from moving forward and your talk has inspired me to take a chance and if it doesn’t work out, I can of course figure it out again. I’m a writer and with this, I have a deep desire to contribute to voicing the effects of climate change – so in terms of healing, helping heal the earth. Thank you for all that you do and congratulations again on your talk, you were wonderful!

    • Melissa

      Hi Angela!
      I was touched by what you wrote and your honesty. We need to hear what you feel you have to say so please keep up 🙂 !!!!!!

      • Angela

        Hi Melissa, thank you for your kind reply and encouragement. I certainly will keep it up, I wouldn’t know what else to do with myself if I didn’t 🙂 Much love to you!

  7. You nailed it! Awesome job : )

  8. Annie

    You had me in tears so fast.

  9. Megan

    So wonderful Marie! Well done

  10. Stacey

    What a great speech! I’ve always thought that everything is figureoutable and have told my husband that for years. I have no problem following my heart and passion. However, he doesn’t seem to get it. So that’s one of our big problems. Any ideas?

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Ooh yeah, that’s tough, Stacey. I can totally relate, as I also have no problem figuring things out and following my passions, but not everyone close to me shares that mentality either.

      One MarieTV episode popped to mind that I thought I might pass along for a few ideas, as it’s been helpful to me in similar situations: http://www.marieforleo.com/2013/05/personal-growth/

      It’s on a slightly different topic of personal growth in general, but I love the episode because Marie shares a few tips for sharing the things you believe in with others who may not be in alignment with those ideas (yet). I hope that helps, and thank you so much for tuning in this week! xo

      • Caroline-The link to to the marietv episode you shared isn’t working.

        • Chelsea - Team Forleo

          Hi Miriam! I just tested the above link, and it appears to be working smoothly. If you’re not able to click through though, you might try copying and pasting it into your browser and seeing if that works. Otherwise, please feel free to reach out at infoATmarieforleoDOT if we can help troubleshoot!

  11. Dear Marie, thank you again for your words of wisdom.
    I wish you & Josh all the best and all the love you need now and in the future. My hubby and I have also been together for 13 years as a couple … staying strong … it is figureoutable 🙂
    xoxo

  12. Bel

    I’m sitting here with tears rolling down my face. Last night I prayed for something to help me move forward yet, I just didn’t know how. Marie, you answered my prayers. I’m vibrating with solutions in this moment and am going to get started on them TODAY. Thank you!!!!!!!!!!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      That’s so beautiful, Bel. You’ve got this! xoxo

    • Those sound like some GOOD vibes Bel 🙂

  13. Nikki Landry

    What we say to ourselves in the privacy of our minds, matter. Speak kindly to yourself and set the pace for greatness.

  14. Wow!
    This is a revolutionary speech!
    Your message put me on fire – no more holding back.

    Thank you, Marie for being the great & inspiring role model and for sharing your beauty <3

  15. Linda

    Marie – you always seem to hit on what’s in the hearts of so many of us, that “we’re not going to make it”, or that we aren’t capable, or good enough. So many years of conditioning our souls to believe in things that just aren’t true and we forget that we are who we THINK we are. Change what you think and you can change everything! Thank you for sharing yourself with us all. You are a gift.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much for your lovely comment, Linda!

  16. I had the privilege of being at Super Soul Session 2 in person and you rocked it Marie!!! Thank you for putting your heart and soul into your presentation and all that you do! I am bravely living the motto that everything is figureoutable. I’ve shifted gears from being a CPA and then a stay-at-home mom, to now being a motivational spiritual teacher and a Happiness Coach. Life is good!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Oh, how awesome that you were there in person, Tracy! We’re so thrilled to hear that you’re living by “everything is figureoutable” and creating the life of your dreams 🙂

  17. I promise, that from this day forward, I WILL NOT Waste one more minute of one more day saying to myself ” I don’t know if I can do that” .. because YES I CAN <3 <3 <3 Thank you Marie

  18. Oh, Marie. PREACH!!
    I laughed. I cried. I gave a standing ovation.
    Incredible!! Well done to You!! ?

  19. Michelle

    I cried. I so needed to hear this story. Thank you for all you do. I will be showing this to my 7 year old when she gets home today. I wish I would have heard this years ago. God bless.

  20. Dear Marie,

    1st of all, thank you for sharing your story – you are my hero, my inspiration and.. so I am sorry for saying to know that you had such tough moments & challenges, that helped – because to me you are a perfect star to the level of whom I (feel I) can never aspire…

    2nd more importantly – I am sorry but I do not believe it anymore..
    I used to: oh yes I did, for so long, from abusive poor family, being told at 13 ‘I’d never ever sing due to health problems’, leaving all, working since the age of 15, working in offices for 15 years now when all I am made to be on is stage, being ridiculously poor to follow the heart and passion and dreams I believe in – because like you, I believed the world is a better place if we all, me included, do what we are meant to do. I did it all..
    I tried to figure out the unfigureoutable – they told me I am too old, I still did it.
    I became a professional singer defying all the odds, at a very late age of 25, and despite many moments where I should have been dead, or no one, I am still here…

    But dreams did not survive: you see, sadly despite giving it more than 10 years, despite believing it is about talent so I could do it, because ‘ everything is (I thought) figureoutable’, despite giving it all and more, tears, years, money, time, sacrificing all, all that I am left is a broken soul.. In show business sadly some nationalities are better off than others, skin colours – as well all know – too, and after years of having another audition for a prostitute (( I am British but with Polish parents), being asked to deliver prostitute lines in a heavy stereotypical Eastern European accent to a Hollywood a-lister, I had enough. It was never about talent, it is always the same role and no matter what I sacrifice and how hard I fight, it never works out.. because in show business, sadly it is about age / skin colour / accent & passport / sex etc.

    So my question to you Marie is this?

    What to do when you LOST all your faith in ‘everything being figureoutable’ & you do not believe it anymore? When believing it and giving it all killed you inside to the point of being a functional zombie that feels more dead than alive? broken, yet functioning.. oh yes, life is still amazing and has its miracles, but what if you lost any remaining FAITH AND HOPE that your dreams can ever become true, no matter NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU FIGHT AND SACRIFICE OR TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT?

    WHAT THEN, MARIE?

    because your speech is great, but all I can say sadly – until you try showbusiness being a foreign actor 🙂 – not everything is figureoutable…

    Yours with love –

    M.

    • Hi Maja,

      Here’s a few thoughts to consider.

      1. You always get to choose what you believe, and more importantly, whether or not you’ll make the suffering in your life redemptive and meaningful, OR proof that nothing ever works out. If you want to dive deep into this philosophy, read Viktor Frankl “Man’s Search For Meaning”

      2. I know a fair amount of people in entertainment, at every level and in every part of the field (production, actors, writers, producers, costume people, sound engineers, editors etc.). When you enter that world, you sign up for some pretty tough odds and a lot of rejection. Most people I know, who are generally happy being in entertainment, fully embrace that fact and do other things to support themselves as well, especially during lean times.

      But realize, that if you’re done with that part of your life or that industry, you can choose to dream up new dreams. You get to choose the role you’ll play in your life Maja…that of a victim, or that of a victor. Write your own script and play the leading role.

      And if you haven’t watched our episode with Elizabeth Gilbert, I think you should — you’ll really enjoy it. http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/09/elizabeth-gilbert-big-magic/

      Sending you an enormous hug! XO M.

      • maja

        Dear Marie,
        1. thank you for answering!, made my day though also made me cry (in the office, as I gave up on all and dreams I do dead end boring sales job).

        2. HOW Can I chose what to believe when everything that ever happened sadly NO MATTER HOW I BELIEVED OTHERWISE – sadly confirmed there is no way I could make it?

        3. I did watch that Liz Gilbet talk (thank you for that too). Sadly I did try to make up other dreams, I did and still trying – e.g. here trying to convince myself I can like the office and forget the stage… 🙂 only to find myself crying and knowing I can’t.. but can come back to playing another one line prostitute NO MATTER HOW HARD I TRY AND GIVE AND FIGHT AND TRY TO FIGURE IT OUT …

        4. so what if you cannot give it up, and no other dreams come to heart, but that one thing is never going to be figureoutable?

        it may sound shocking but if i could, if i was depressive or had self harm in me, i often believe jumping under something is the solution – or I have to live a life of a victim (no my choice where i was born etc..) with broken wings with broken soul and no hope or faith left… Better to be dead than with a dead heart, is my philosophy..

        thank you for reply and hugs

        M.

        • Caroline - Team Forleo

          Maja, as a fellow creative, my heart goes out to you in a big way.

          In addition to what Marie shared above, I wanted to mention something that really resonated with me personally regarding what to do if you don’t have any other dreams in your heart, and that is just following your curiosity. It’s something Liz Gilbert writes about in her book “Big Magic,” and it also comes up a bit in some of her podcast episodes called “Magic Lessons.”

          She tells a couple stories in her book about both herself and other artists who suffered huge failure or experienced creative blocks, and they played around with curiosity to help heal and find their way back. One example was that she once took a painting class when she was feeling creatively blocked, and even though (as she said) she wasn’t a great painter, it helped her access her creativity again.

          It doesn’t have to be something you’re super passionate about — it can just be something fun like drawing, playing an instrument, something that you just do for yourself. It could lead you in entirely new and exciting directions, or it might just be a way to tune in to your creativity.

          There’s a lot of pressure we put on ourselves, not to mention the external pressures of the industry that you’ve mentioned, so giving yourself permission to play and experiment can be so healing for your heart and soul, and it may lead to some wonderful new discoveries.

          • maja

            thank you, and yes i agree – and i love and did experiment and advise it to everyone…

            But what if no matter how enjoying it can be, you know you just know WHAT you should be doing, yet you also know no matter how hard you try it is never going to be possible, due to some factors of how some businesses are run?

            Better be a dead-inside zombie doing something you do not want to do, or – as shocking as it sounds – really dead? It may sound shocking, but that is my question.. I keep pretending doing other things, then crying every time I realise, like when watching Marie, I lost all the faith and hope and belief I ever had, and worst I do not believe it ever could be back…

            Dead-inside, social functioning, zombie…
            but thank you! with love – M

        • Hi Maya,
          I saw your comments and I am very concerned. I see that you’ve tried so hard. You’ve tried so hard to take care of yourself, you’ve tried so hard in show business, you’ve tried so hard to be positive but as you say you feel “broken”. I just want to tell you that I see how hard you’ve tried and you are still trying.

          It seems like you’re in a lot of pain. You’ve mentioned a few times thinking about death. You acknowledge that this is shocking. There’s a part of you that is seeking help by commenting here. Again you are trying! You try so hard.

          My suggestion may seem counter intuitive but seeing as trying isn’t working for you right now, how about not trying for a while? Lean into the pain and go down that rabbit hole in a safe therapeutic environment. Marie’s work is very future focused but I sense that you have things unresolved from the past. Thinking about the future now seems overwhelming. Therapy is all about going into the past and healing our wounds.

          I believe that we are all in a swimming pool and that we need to reach the bottom before we can push ourselves up again. Everyone has a different depth to the bottom of their pool. Going down deeper and darker can feel scary, take a guide.

          I don’t know how you feel when I say this to you but would you consider a professional therapist? You need someone that can support you along side cleaning out the wound. I can almost hear you saying now, “I’ve tried that.” Well if you have it’s likely that you went for regular talking therapy. That doesn’t work for everyone ( I mean nothing works for everyone). Because of your passion I think non talking therapy may be more appropriate for you.

          I’ve worked with children who have attempted suicide before and through play they have healed. Play and the creative arts have a way of tapping into the unconscious mind, the deep dark emotional recesses of our brains. Would you consider some kind of arts therapy? Could be Art or perhaps music or dance therapy which would make sense given your background. You are drawn to these for a reason. They are healing in a way that talking just sometimes isn’t.

          Don’t get me wrong, talking and coaching are so valuable but you have to be in the right state in order to benefit. Come back to Marie’s teachings another time, she’s not going anywhere. Let me know if I can be assistance in finding some recommendations of people in your area.
          Sending you healing vibes xxx

          • And hugs! xxx

          • maja

            oh btw yes i did therapy, it is a great thing 🙂 i have few friends therapist, i recommend it to anyone 🙂 Sadly, from what i know, therapist cannot change show biz yet ? 😉 so sadly what would it help? 🙂 as great as it is.. and no i am not depressed.. far from it. i know what i want, and how i want to live, and well if i cant, i may chose to not live 🙂 even if i believe that life is a great thing 🙂

          • maja

            Darling Rachel Winston

            for some reason my first long comment to your comment disappeared:
            so let me rewrite it:
            i may sound suffering and mention death but if you met me you d hardly believe i am the same person writing it: you see, i have a nice job with lovely people – who all know i am an actress and singer – loving bf, and all. i take care of my body. sleep, smile, eat well etc.. meditate and all.
            YET i do not believe in dreams coming true anymore, and yes inside i am broken not having that faith – i always believe you can do it, talent means something, and i ll get where i want blah blah.. then years of trying and racism in show biz happened, and no i dont believe it anymore.
            but i am FAR from depressed 🙂 i enjoy little blessings like hot shower or coffee on my desk, music, sleep, playing on my keyboard, laughing etc.

            YET i am broken yes, and i believe as i always did it s better to live happy short life than long broken one being broken inside, not believe in dreams and fighting and making it anymore…so yes i may believe i prefer to die, but it has nothing to do with depression..

            first case of euthanasia in spain was a man full of life, yet paralised who decided he preffered to die. society did not like that but one can chose…

            i am broken inside, i do not believe in good things, i do not believe everything is figureoutable .. i may smile and laugh and be all ok, but i lost all faith one can ever achieve dreams … not in show biz! try it and it ll kill you and eta you up 🙂

            that is being broken! far from sad disease of clinical depression – i know too well having mom and dad and brother sick and me being the happy go lucky fighter and survivor…

            but i fought, and gave all, and it could not change anything because show biz is the way it is and i know i dont want anything else even if yes other things are fun and nice and there is many blessings..

            i may chose to go and leave it, if i cannot do what i love and have HOPE inside.. for oscar dreams, for making it etc.

            but thank you nonetheless for care and love 🙂

            with smiles

            Maja

        • Jenna Verenka

          Hi Maja and Marie
          I read this thread, and I have the following thoughts…
          figuring out our problems or even our path in life we use our ever capable problem solving minds and our skills, but when we suffer loss and pain, the emotions that result often drive us to drastic solutions.. keep in mind our emotions are not something that to be “figured out” its better to accept our thoughts and feelings….even feelings of deep hopelessness and despair… The trouble comes when we get “fused” with our hopelessness…”fused” with your brokeness..Maja you are having an experience of brokeness but you are not broken… together we can help each other find our wings..
          Peace
          Jenna

      • maja

        ps you say :ENTER that world – i do not believe this is EVER a CHOICE – i wish i could chose not to do it, but stage or being on stage is not a choice rather something that sadly choses you.. I wish i could chose sales or finance instead! Helas..

        • Maja,

          Thank you for sharing all of this. I loved reading this and Marie’s response was amazing! I know how you feel and you can find every way to prove that right now. I get it, I’ve been there. But what Marie is saying is that you CHOOSE what you believe in. You Choose what you feel is possible. You choose the thoughts you think that create your reality.

          Why don’t you build your own stage and stand on it!?

          I’m rooting for you 🙂

          XOLaura

        • Maja – you can be proud of yourself for trying. Maybe you are blessed to know what you love and want to do…even if it hasn’t come to pass AS YOU WANT IT TO. Some (many) people don’t know what their hearts desire and will search all their lives.

          Is it better to have loved and “lost” than to have never loved at all? That is rhetorical. There will always be love, there will always be light. In the darkest places light shines through even the tiniest of cracks…

          Namaste,
          Kerry

          • maja

            Dear Kerry
            thank you! for reading my comment and my post and understanding! and not telling me ‘to imagine it’ or other blah blah from people who kind and wanting to help but having no idea what it’s like..

            yes i did try, gave all, and lost..
            so badly i feel dead so inside i often wonder if it would not be better to be real dead..

            but i did try and yes i always knew.. and it hurts like hell
            but i did try..

            thank you god bless you X
            wishing you never feel that broken ever

          • FreddieBrown

            Maja,
            I don’t want to sound like a heartless person but after reading all your comments and replies, I think you feel a lot of SELF PITY and you actually enjoy your PITY PARTY because you are getting attention.
            People like you will not respond to reasoning and loving suggestions. You have made up your mind about the world you live in and nothing anyone can say will change your mind. So, go ahead and enjoy your own pity party – and remember you don’t have to invite others to join you. Remember also, that you are OK as you are.

  21. You’re such a great storyteller, Marie. I felt like I was right there in the airport with you.

    If I held that conviction to be true I’d put myself out there and finally do the food and nutrition videos that I’ve been planning forever. I’ve been caught up in the how to’s and trying to make it perfect while getting nowhere. Thanks for the inspiration as always. And congratulations on the session, you did a great job!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Go for it, Marisa! I always get caught up in perfection and “how-to’s” myself, and found this MarieTV totally game changing in that regard, so I thought I might share it just in case you hadn’t seen it (it’s a great one!): http://www.marieforleo.com/2014/07/start-small-or-sucky/

    • Ode

      Marisa, you and me both. Mm!, mm!, mm! I’m gonna break away from that though, I really am, and I’m wishing you the same.

  22. maja

    “What we need now, more than anything else, is people who believe in what’s possible.” –
    what if you no longer are able to ever believe it, Marie?

    is what I am saying….

    in tears –

    M.

    • Rache

      Hi Maja,
      I want to share this to you with love…
      1. Even if the solution is already in your face, if you believe that there’s no solution at all, then you will never see it nor notice it. Your actions will stick to whatever you believe in because you dont want to feel wrong about what you claim to believe. Right now you choose to believe that there is no solution for you. So thats what you see. Im not saying that if you choose to believe that there is a solution to your problem then the solution will appear to you right away (but most of the time it does). You have to be commited enough to your dreams that no matter how tough things are, you are loyal to your dreams (and not to those who says you cant nor to the circumstances that tell you you can reach it.) Ask yourself, are you committed? Are you loyal to your dreams?
      2. Whatever you feel right now is because of how you define your situation. If you say that your situation sucks then that how you will feel. If you define that whats happening to you now is just a test on how commited and loyal you are to your dreams then you will feel differently (maybe determined instead of sad). If you want to change how you feel instantly, then change the the meaning that you put to your situation right now.
      I hope this helps Maja. 🙂 ♡♡♡

      • Dana

        Maya,
        You are your hero.
        You are not a victim, unless you want that.
        With love I’m writing. Your strong believes dictate your life. Try writing down what you think about your dream job and realize that that’s your reality. Try changing those believes if you want something different to happen… I totally agree that we learn to think a certain way because of our experiences but stop. You can’t attract anything better if you continue to have the same believes that brought you here.
        Warm hugs,
        Dana

      • maja

        Dear R
        1st of all thank you for your care
        2nd : you see if you met me, you d never guess i wrote all this:i work in a great company doing sales (they know i am actress and singer), i laugh, i sing, i smile etc…
        I am not’ suffering’ outside meaning the fact that show biz is the way it is, well it s not like depression or sickness and yes i sleep eat and make myself happy i.e. my body. You may be broken and lose faith in dreams because you did try and sadly not everything is figureoutable, esp not show biz :), as racist and limited as it is, and function, but not be ‘depressed’ esp not in a medical way.
        I believe it is better to live short, than to live unhappily.
        I do not see how i could get an oscar and make it in the business that does not want me. so yes i can think of dying, without being depressed…

        i always believed it s better to jump up from high and die than to live in a lie, doing a nice job with nice people and pretend to be happy..
        but it does not mean i am depressed. probably quite the contrary..

        thank you nonetheless..

    • Amy

      Maja, let me add my encouragement to the voices here. In your comments, underneath your frustrations and questions, I still hear your hope in possibilities. You’re still searching. And bravo for not giving up, even when you feel like giving up, ESPECIALLY when you feel that way!

      And forgive me, if this seems silly, but a small voice in the back of my mind wonders: how are you caring for yourself? Are you getting enough sleep and exercising and eating well? All those things we “know” we should do, but sometimes forget about when life gets stressful. I encourage you to be sure you’re caring for yourself so that you can keep seeking and hoping for the best of possibilities.

      With love,
      Amy

      • maja

        thank you Amy :*
        sadly i DID give up, and I DID LOSE all hope and faith.
        and yes i care about myself – good note!
        but that does not change the way the business words, or my past / where i was born etc, or nothing really.. as good as it is (so well thought!) thank you and love x

    • Ode

      Maja,

      I hear your cry and frustration which are genuine by the way, but as someone else stated, you might be letting that cloud your judgement. It is true what they say that, if the only tool you have is a hammer, every problem begins to look like a nail to you.

      There’re things/aspects/characters, etc. from your culture that might not have been written about or portrayed yet in Hollywood that has let you down so much that you could wow us with if you’re willing to create and figure it out.

      Screw Hollywood, create your own stage.

  23. Deb

    Thank you so much, Marie, for sharing this story. This was utterly amazing; worth all the blood, sweat and tears you put into it. I laughed and cried at the same time. I am in the midst of starting a business. The pendulum between self-confidence and self-doubt swings wildly. Thanks for helping to swing that pendulum in the positive direction.

  24. Powerful talk, Marie. Thank you for sharing what makes you you and for the inspiration.

  25. Crista

    Wow! You nailed it Marie. I was in tears throughout, mostly in laughter! But also in pride for the phenomenal job you did.

    And your message was so powerful. Ever since first meeting your work, “Everything is figuroutable” has become my own mantra.

    So if it’s true, then I’m going to be okay. My husband just asked me for a divorce, because I too love my work. So now I’m on my own. I’ve got nothing but that seed of a business I’m birthing. But that business (thanks to BSchool) is already taking root and has helped hundreds of others. So I will start this new life one step at a time, in faith, knowing that when I feel lost or alone, I will figure it out.

    • Louise Bartlett

      Sending you so much love and light!

  26. Wow Marie! You are SO awesome!
    Had to take a deep breath to sinc in all the wisdom and emotions that came up during your talk. As I see you talk, I thank you for your YES to YOUR purpose and mission, and makes me think: what if I could help people that deeply by saying YES to MY mission and purpose? Since everything is figureoutable, I am gonna figure out how to put my light out there. Thank you Marie. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
    May everything Holly always bless your vacations, your piñatas and your marriage.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Lovely, Marina! I love your question about saying yes to YOUR mission. That’s such a great thing to ponder and dig into. Shine your light 🙂

  27. Beautiful presentation, Marie! Very inspiring and touching, I even shed a tear of joy! Everything IS indeed figuroutable.
    You’ve got yourself a fearless and wise mom there, Marie, congratulations!
    Love your style!
    xoxo,
    Lavanya

  28. Everything is indeed figureoutable! Love it.

  29. Inbal

    Wow, I cried several times. Loved your speech Marie.

  30. Daniela

    Gorgeous Marie!

    I may just say that a beloved teacher said once that God
    is like a antena on whoich we may choose to tune it or to other frequencies ..of entertainment!

    THE HUMAN BENG BLESSINGS IF TUNNED IN GOD PRINCIPLES
    MAY MAKE THE WORLD NOTHING LESS THAN PARADISE!

    each one on his field! JUST THE HIGHEST VALUE^TO DELIVER!

    IMAGINE! 🙂

    success forward!

  31. Marie, you are an amazing speaker! Your story had so many golden nuggets!!!! From the effort it takes to mend and keep relationships, balancing your two loves and rolling up your sleeves to make whatever you need to happen to Mama Forleo words of wisdom.
    What could I make happen if I truly believed that everything is figure out-able? There was something in your story that is related to my hearts heart desire. The impact your mom made on you about saving money, wise spending and hard work is exactly what I want to raise awareness about, the impact we have on our children in regards to money and spending. I want to help parents be aware and choose how they want to model and teach their children about the value of money and how to utilize it for what it is, a tool.
    Hats off to you Marie for your words, stories and impact you are making in your causes and hearts desires!!! Thank you for this video today!

  32. This is absolutely true… Awesome video!

  33. How to get to the next level, how to let go and employ help to back me up. I can figure out how to go from being a one woman show to attracting the people into my life who will empower me. I will figure out how to build the infrastructure to support my expansion, the people who will support my growth. It’s all there, I just haven’t accessed it yet. At 62 I’ve just started to believe I am an artist. Now it’s time to build the business of sharing my art, my products, my vision. I have the desire and the drive, I will figure out how to go to the next level, and so it is.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Oh, it’s so lovely that you’re believing you’re an artist now. That belief is so crucial and I think it’s what makes all the hustle and drive possible. We’re cheering you on, Laurel!

  34. Amen! Amazing job and amazing message. Thank you for speaking into so many lives and inspiring us to transform our thoughts and actions. My entire life and work mission is to rise above the life circumstances. We always have that choice to move forward.

  35. Loved the presentation. I don’t watch many as I feel I have seen enough. You were/are very good. Incidentally in answer to your question. I would learn to market myself digitally in order to make the most of my talents. I have a four book series to self publish and I already dread the process of trying to be noticed. Que sera sera. I can and I will.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      “I can and I will” — I love that, Gary!

      When you’re gearing up to get the word out there about your books, feel free to explore our MarieTV library. We have so many amazing MarieTV episodes that talk about marketing and building a reputation in an authentic, heartfelt way, so you might find some helpful tips there!

  36. This was amazing! I am so very very happy for you.

    I have been working on a few things and feeling a little overwhelmed with it all. This message today helped me to realize that everything indeed is figureoutable!!!

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you so much!

    Smile,
    Stacey

  37. Marie, I just watched your talk, and I got tears in my eyes! You are such a wonderful human being! Thank you so much for doing what you do and inspiring and encouraging me and so many, many others! You are a rolemodel to me. Letting shine through all your heart and soul through all what you do is just wonderful beyong words! Thank you so much!

  38. What a great talk, Marie. Congrats on nailing it! Your message is one I hope to pass along to others. In terms of my own life, I’m a fairly determined gal who tends to agree with your message. I think my biggest takeaway, however, is the idea that if everything is figureoutable, I could benefit from calming down a bit and reminding myself that things will get sorted out, in due time. In other words, sometimes the pressure and urgency I place on myself hinders my ability to be effective as I figure stuff out! So that’s something I want to work on.

  39. Linda

    Thank you for this talk and for being the authentic amazing person you are in the world Marie! When I watched your talk I was so touched by it, it moved me to tears! Such inspiration and authenticity!

  40. I would stop fearing some vague consequences, problems or imaginary issues that I can’t even know *would* happen, if I reached for true greatness.

    I would become unstoppable in helping others, inspiring them to consciously choose happiness and joy in the everyday life.

    Beautiful talk, Marie. I especially smiled at your plane story, as a similar situation happened to me and my partner on JFK too! For us it was on the way back from holiday though, heading home so we did take the plane next day. I admire your creativity in that moment and it’s a perfect example of how strongly you believed that you could make it.

    This really made me think. I thought I already had that “mind talk” down. But now I choose to be even more mindful. THANK YOU. This was a touching experience.

    Sending love to you, your family, your team and all MFInsiders here,
    Kat xx

  41. I lost my husband, my love of my life, perfect-for-me, best friend, soul mate after 7 blissful years together to cancer on Super Bowl Sunday. He died in a hospital bed in our dining room after a 2 1/2 year long battle with metastatic melanoma. After three months, I’ve been actively grieving, leaning into the pain and sorrow, reading all I can about grief, talking to a hospice counselor, and trying to understand this foreign place I’ve found myself. Your talk was truly transformative for me this morning. I sat here doing my own ugly cry, feeling inspired and heart broken, hopeful and desperately sad all at the same time.

    I am figuring this out and John knew that I would. It made it easier for him to go. Next month I’ll move back “home” to Portland, Oregon to be closer to my family and friends. It’s a big step and I’m taking it with a lot of unknowns. I’ve been second guessing that decision but your message has affirmed my faith in myself and my ability to navigate this very unfamiliar ground.

    Thanks Marie. You are a blessing. You blessed me in a huge way today.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Julie, I’m so sorry for the loss of your husband, and please accept our sincerest condolences.

      It means so much to know that everything Marie shared here really resonated with you today, and we’re sending so much love to you.

  42. Hi Marie,
    You’re inspirational. A big thank you to your Mother for helping raise a strong, determined and charming woman. Everything IS figure-out-able! The world is yours for the taking. There are no barriers in life… These are principles I am also teaching my son. I’m glad I randomly came across you, I’m all the way in New Zealand, with big goals and big dreams. One day I hope to meet and speak with Oprah, or even be on that same stage as you sharing something insightful and life changing. Is there any way you would do one-on-one business mentorship with somebody on the other side of the world? You never know what opportunities await you… You should visit New Zealand. God bless.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Hi Teuila! We’re so glad you came across our work, and that you’ve been tuning in all the way from New Zealand. Although Marie doesn’t do one-on-one business mentoring or coaching, we have hundreds of amazing MarieTV episodes that you can tune into anytime (for free!) and we also have some incredible business training programs too (B-School and The Copy Cure).

      If you have any questions about those programs or anything we do, please feel free to drop us a line anytime at info AT marieforleo DOT com! 🙂

  43. Sue

    Congratulations on your talk! Everything really is figureoutable. xoxo

  44. Bravo Marie! Great talk and great message. I believe everyone has the ability if they apply themselves.
    It reminds me of this great word and concept we have in India –

    “Jugaad”
    It is generally used as a word to- represent an innovative fix or a simple work-around,[2] used for solutions that bend rules, or a resource that can be used as such, or a person who can solve a complicated issue. This meaning is often used to signify creativity to make existing things work or to create new things with meager resources.
    – Wikipedia

    Thanks for sharing and inspiring 🙂

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      I love that, Shivani!

  45. Meral

    You are truly wonderful, Marie!!! Thank you for all the wisdom and authenticity.
    Saludos from Buenos Aires!

  46. Brava, Marie, brava!

  47. Absolutely beautiful, Marie. Thank you for the inspiration and congratulations – that was one outstanding presentation you delivered.

  48. Ela

    Great speech. I felt like watching Carrie Bradshaw, and that’s good cause I miss her!

  49. Lee Tonia Lenoir Smith

    Dear Maria
    My name is Ms Lee Tonia Lenoir Smith, I want to say thank you I miss watching on Sunday but I watched the others and I thought I would time on Monday but nope I went bed late after cleaning up today God made it possible your email was the first thing seen and I know God was here with me this while listening to you no one knew my doubts about writing my book I have been writing it for a while and I am almost done but I find myself Doubting myself but today is day I will look fear in face and say no more.

    Thank you Thank you Thank you. LeeToniLeeToniaLeno

  50. Cathy

    oh yeah, Marie, you nailed it in that talk! I was taught a similar lesson at the tender age of 16 when I was told I couldn’t go to France with my French class because the school wouldn’t approve the trip. Long story short – when I told my mom, through my tears (after working to pay my own way and all expenses entirely on my own), she said – “just because you’re told no, doesn’t mean it’s always no – we can figure this out and you will take that trip”….I ended up going – not knowing a soul from other schools and learning the best lesson of all “just because you’re told no doesn’t mean it’s always no….get up and get moving girl! ” . That was a life lesson that has moved me forward every day. Thanks, Marie, I needed your reminder that everything is figure-out-able in the midst of working on a project I’ve been struggling with….I love who you are and your upbeat messages. Everything really is figure-out-able.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      What a great story and lesson to learn at a young age, Cathy. It’s so awesome you were able to go to France and make that happen! 🙂

    • Kerry

      Awesome Mom….:)

  51. Thanks for sharing your story Rie! Figureoutable is a mindset. What would I do? Create – create value that the entire world could benefit from.

  52. Shery

    I am doing the ugly cry. Wow just awesome !

  53. I haven’t watched this yet (I’m about to), but just knowing it’s out in the world already makes me wanna cry. I love you so much! My day has been made.

  54. That was amazing. Thank you.

  55. Great job Marie, I cried and laughed. I wholeheartedly agree with you. Great message. You rocked. I already have answered this question long ago, with B-School and your help in changing my life. Thank you all over again. xoxo

  56. Well done! Awesome talk…
    It made me think of the Dutch saying “Where there is a will, there is a way”
    What I’d do … I am doing. I want to know & discover how the world works, how we can heal it, ourselves. I want to know what the meaning is of life, if magic is real and how powerfull we really are as humans. I am doing my research and writing my book. May take a while but i’ll figure out how to get it done 🙂

    Much inspired & motivated by people like you and Oprah, thank you!

    Greetings
    Monique

  57. Kim

    I absolutely, positively needed to hear this, this morning. There comes a point in your life where you have to embrace what you’ve got and follow through. My favorite line is “If at first you don’t succeed, try and try again” Loved every word Marie!.
    Thank you, thank you, thank you…

  58. Mariss

    Wow — did I need this today. As always, thank you. You are a life changer. XO

  59. That was beautiful Marie…you are an amazing soul….love, love loved it!

  60. Ha, Ha, Ha! What a blast…Thoroughly enjoyed listening. It feeds my soul to watch Marie doing what it is she’s meant to be doing in this lifetime. Marie your fiercely you and you’re loved so much for for your authenticity.
    What would you do? – I’ll continue to keep evolving, to be the best version of me I can be and allow that to unfold exactly as it’s meant to.
    Who would you become? – A leader for those I’m meant to serve in this lifetime.
    What would you heal or transform or transcend? My mind…those limiting thoughts, patterns, beliefs and behaviours that keep you small and hold you back.
    Ultimately I’d fulfil a purpose and serve. That’s precisely why we all should strive to figure out how to keep letting go of what keeps us small and limits our creativity.
    Hell yeah…of course it’s always figureoutable!

  61. Bravo woman. I laughed. I cried. It was better than Cats. (Seriously) Currently working on a new talk and your clarity and passion are such an inspiration.
    The thing I want to believe is figureoutable is climate change. Specifically plastic. I know plastic is a symptom of a single use consumption mentality, but it would still be swell to have an alternative to something that never goes away for single use items.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Hahaha, better than Cats — I love that, Emily!

  62. So many Amens.

  63. Marie, You are a beautiful soul. I’m one year in to having my own coaching practice. I know that I’m here to serve, but sometimes I feel the urgency in “making it work” and that I’m not making the impact I’m born to make in the world. Again and again, your words remind me that I have to do is keep showing up and TRUST that what is in my highest good will be presented to me if I only listen and keep my eyes open. Thank you and bless you!

  64. Wow Marie, you are truly growing from strength to strength. This is one of the best talks I have heard you do.

    Thank you for figuring out who you are and what you can bring into this world. You are a true mt mentor from afar and inspiration.

    I am slowly evolving into the person the world needs me to be. Not that I am conforming to societies standards but rather taking what I was born for seriously and wholeheartedly. I am slowing figuring out that I need to be able to learn and grow on my own natural timeline. Being able to stop and believe in what I am capable of and how my uniqueness can help me encourage and invest in those around me. And it’s ok to fail and fall as these are the moments we truly find how brave we can be.

    Never stop growing and learning. Believe in your true calling and reach for the impossible.

  65. Hi Marie,
    I really LOVED this. You are so real and true.

    Katie 🙂

  66. Marie – so very splendid. You are on magnificent form here. Truly in your power; it’s an extraordinary thing to listen to you speak – sharing such personal moments – and translating them for a collective understanding. You are so inspiring to me: thank you!

  67. I’M all about Marie Forleo! You absolutely rock Mary. You did a great talk and all the head crunching and mind blisters thats you got, writing that speech down, don’t matter anymore. You figured it out amazingly!

    Bravo! Très inspirante.

  68. So amazing and inspiring!!
    This testilony from Marie gives strength and inspirations. While I’m facing some issues now, I already know I could make it. But sometimes, hearing succesful people like her just give the kick in the ass to face every kind of things.

    Thank you so much for all.
    Greets from France,
    Raynald, “Peace light and guidance to every breathing ones.”

  69. Angelique

    Wow – that was awesome! You are a force to be reckoned with. What a way to start off the day!

  70. Marie, WOW, you never stop encouraging and inspiring me – Thank you for sharing so much of your personal story! Right now I feel so incredibly motivated and I’m certain that eventually I’ll figure out how to become a successful (and well paid) artist and surface pattern designer.

  71. As I sit here, after just wrapping up B School. I could have never imagined that I could be any more inspired than I have been over the last 6 weeks while learning from you.
    But you did it – once again – there are tears, laughter, and so much inspiration!
    Thank you Marie! For being who you are and sharing it with us.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Beautiful, Liz. Thank you so much for your sweet note, and we’re so glad you enjoyed Marie’s Oprah speech. Such great timing at the end of B-School too! 🙂

  72. Ron

    I wish I knew what I was born for Maria, 69 next month and my search still has no answer. I’ve slowed down a lot since reaching o.a.p status though and I suppose that’s what happens -plus these hormone injections to keep prostate cancer at bay has played a huge part in having my motivationl taken away. A hinderence yes no doubt about that, but me being such a curious wotnot it’s still not a dead duck. SO, SOD IT it’s not over yet, i’ll just have to get fired up in short bursts and gain momentum again that way.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Ron, it’s definitely not over and it’s never too late to ask those questions. I’m sorry to hear that you’re battling cancer, and we’re sending loads of healing wishes your way.

      While I was reading your note, I thought I might share another recent MarieTV episode we did that talks about finding the work you’re meant to do for a few other little nuggets of wisdom: http://www.marieforleo.com/2016/04/chris-guillebeau/

      Keep following that curiosity – we’re cheering you on!

  73. Lakica Beatrice (@lakishabeatrice)

    Thank you. Am going to figure out how to leave my night mare job. My boss never gives me peace.

  74. Our family did this. We took the plunge. We left successful careers, sold our perfect Gentleman’s farm and moved to Idaho to run a 1200 acre regenerative agriculture farm. We were soaring high, featured in Fortune Magazine, selected as a 2015 Savory Hub candidate (one of 30 in the world under Alan Savory- one of the top 6 agrarians in the world). Then, mold struck our family due to a builder’s error. Suddenly our family was crippled by neurological tics, semi-hemiplegic migraines and neurocognitive issues- our children literally went from Mac OS X to Apple II in cognitive capability virtually overnight as their bodies writhed in pain. The children & I had to leave the farm in search of healing- with a resolute promise we’d return. My husband is still there- caring for the farm & his 95 year old mother. It’s been a year & we’ve learned a lot. We’re going back. We still don’t have all the answers but we are firmly resolute that “Everything is figureoutable.” With faith the size of a mustard seed, we will heal ourselves, the land & the community to complete the vision of sustainability we committed to when we started the farm. Miracles will happen. Thank-you Marie, I needed the reminder & am posting it on my mirror so that it reminds me daily. We already have the victory- we just need to remember that fact.

  75. Joan Tuck

    I so needed to hear that. Thank you . At a very low point in my life but I will figure it out. Very inspirational.

  76. Michelle Burnes

    Marie, you had me in tears! I laughed my butt off (at work!) watching you on stage running through the airport. Oh my gosh, you were GREAT! Thank you for keeping it REAL, like I knew you would! I’m so honored to be a B-Schooler 🙂
    Okay. Now on to my thoughts inspired by your questions.
    I wouldn’t let fear stop me from living the life that I know I was born to live. I’m in the middle of a divorce right now. It’s a confusing time and I’m really scared. I question how I’m going to handle all of this and show up for my kids the way they deserve. The good news is that I DO believe everything is figureoutable. I too grew up with a mom who taught me this. An amazing, strong, courageous single mom who never gave up (and fixed her own stuff too).
    I’d also be be more vulnerable and share my stories more to connect with people through love. I’d write the book, launch the business, and be a loving guide for young women to see their own value and worthiness early on in life.
    These are just some of things that I would do. Better yet, WILL do / AM doing 🙂
    Massive gratitude and love to you and all of Team Forleo! XOXO

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Beautiful, Michelle — thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. We’re sending so much love your way for navigating your transition and figuring it out — I know you will! We’re so honored to have you as a B-Schooler! <3 <3

      • Michelle Burnes

        THANK YOU, Caroline. Your kindness is inspiring and appreciated so, so much!

  77. Inspiring and motivating as always, Marie! THANK YOU for sharing your gifts with the world. I feel inspired and have been taking small steps to move into my greatness. I always have the mantra of everything is figureoutable in my head… and it keeps me moving on little by little. I’m celebrating my small accomplishments and stepping into my greatness and know that finding you and B-School was the catalyst in doing so after experiencing some severe post-natal depression. You came along at exactly the right time and I’m forever grateful for you and your work and helping me see that I need to step into my greatness and start kicking some ass!
    THANK YOU for all that you do!!!

  78. I am so truly grateful for you Marie. Thank you for fueling my soul. Exactly what I needed to hear today.

  79. Thank you so much for sharing this! My answer to your question, what would I do knowing that everything is figure-out-able? I would step into my power and make it possible for others to do the same. I would build a business centered around lifting other people up to reach their dreams. I would use my story and my tools to give others the strength to find their voices and their passions.

  80. Sally

    I would educate women and children worldwide, so that they can live without fear.

  81. Megan

    You rocked it. Completely inspiring. This is a keeper that I will watch again and again.

  82. Wow Marie, what a moving talk, you were filled with such heart and love. And I felt so proud of you 🙂 The strange thing is I searched for your talk on the super soul sessions site this afternoon, then just after watching it I opened my inbox and there was your email about your talk!
    Thank you for the reminder, everything is figuroutable, it was just what I needed today. It has giving me a nudge to keep doing little things everyday to move my business, the Happiness Practice, which provides holistic mental health, forward. Thank you again.

  83. Oh Marie. I fall in love with your glow, gumption, and inspiration more and more. It’s not a new message you shared, but your delivery tugged at my heart and filled my eyes up with tears. You’re able to share a repeated message in a way that strikes a new chord every time I hear it. Right now, I’m in the process of working through feelings of overwhelm trying to figure out how to make an old office building into the cafe location of my dreams. Really, I’m trying to figure out how to piece all of the present opportunities in connection to my bigger goals pulling me forward. “Everything is figureoutable” is definitely going to be one of my default mantras now. I’ve evaded sitting down and writing a business plan because I keep thinking, “Oh my gosh there’s just so much to research and learn, how am I going to do this?” Everything is figureoutable, and I’m well on my path right now achieving exactly this. Thank you Marie, sending so much love and light your way!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Yes!! You’ve got this, Jasmine. We’re sending tons of love right back! xo

  84. Bravo Marie! You had me laughing and crying! Thank you for the amazing speech and personal stories. I know I’ll remember them always and they will be there when I need the inspiration.

  85. Wow, Marie. Congratulations and a half! Looking forward to watching. Glad I’m able to see it from Australia, as sometimes these kinds of videos are blocked outside the US.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Oh that’s awesome, Elly! We’re so glad it’s visible in Australia, and hope you enjoy checking it out 🙂

  86. Thanks Marie,

    I really needed to hear this, of all days today.
    Yesterday was my birthday, and after several months of pretty harsh financial difficulties I had been feeling quite downcast and “defeated”. The company I founded with a friend on Novemeber hasn’t been able to actually take off, almost all of the projects we had developed had been cancelled and only a couple remain on the “maybe will happen” side.
    Still there are many things I can try, to figureout a way to move forward. I cannot dwell on the feelings of defeat, tiredness, depression.
    It has been one of the most difficult periods of my life, no income, about ot be sacked from the house I rent (for lack of payment), multiple debts, etc… My girlfriend has been amazing, helping and supporting me as much as she can but in the end this whole situation I must figure it out.
    I will figure out a way to become succesful in my profession as a consultant and life coach, I will regain the peace of mind and heart to continue helping my coachees and clients to become succesful themselves.
    Thanks again Marie, for sharing and amazing and truly motivating message at the right time.

  87. Anasuya

    Here’s what I, not only would do, I will do: Find a way to ensure that all people have clean water to drink, education for women and children, support meditation programs in K – 12 grade schools, become a motivational public speaker, write and publish my life story and at least 8 other books that I have titles for, express my gratitude in a financially meaningful way to friends and family who have been so deeply loyal over my lifetime, be a leader in uplifting the quality of life for all of humanity and the life of our planet. Yes, I know these are lofty and grand ideas. For far too long I have thought of myself as way too small and not valuing who I am. No longer. I am great! I am a brilliant, intelligent, loving soul and I am here to love myself profoundly and teach others how to do the same!

  88. My god, Marie. It’s a good thing I am at home watching this and not in that audience. I am balling my eyes out. You speak to my soul. Thank you for for being so brave in this world and empowering me to feel the same.

  89. Wonderful. I love the story of your mom. She sounds like an amazing woman and role model. To answer your deeply profound question, I would end animal cruelty and would find a way to ensure that biological diversity was maintained globally. This is by far an enormous task and seems daunting. Animal cruelty lurks EVERYWHERE and dealing with humans who don’t value life – human life even – seems beyond difficult…even impossible. How do you rationalize with irrational people or people who don’t care or hold the values you do? But, as I sit in the airport on my way to a Wolf Sanctuary to find ways to work with them and spread the word through art and outreach, I am dedicated to the cause and continue to hope that change is possible.

  90. Marie,

    Your airport story had me laughing! I could relate to your story on so many levels! I have to remind myself that although a situation might not be funny at the time, if I can look back and see the humor in a tough situation, my life is infinitely more interesting, blessed and happy than it may appear at first glance. And yes, everything is figure-outable! Out of necessity, it’s been my motto since I was a young girl. Thank you for spreading your words of humor, encouragement and hope. Sending you much love.

  91. Tomas

    You are spot on! The only thing that stops us is us. Thanks for the reminder. Now I have to get out there and kick some ass.
    Love , Tomas

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Woohoo, cheers for kicking ass and taking names! 😉

  92. Gracie Davis

    I would stop telling myself that I’m too old, too limited, and too busy to find and follow my dreams. I would create a life where my mindset would allow the day to day grind to wear me down. I would accept baby steps as progress and be okay with the process of finding my true calling. With so many interests and duties, I have lost my authentic self.

    I believe I can find her again. I can heal the wounded child so that I can give fully and freely again without whittling away to a shell. My interests and inner voice would not be silenced for the sake of others’ comfort level. It is time to work around what I perceive as my limitations- many of which I have created. I want to create a legacy that I can be proud of. One in which I share my gifts with others and in turn help them create a happier life.

    Thank you for sharing your gifts with world and me, Marie. You are my inspiration!

  93. Thank you Marie I would first do what your passion is will continue donating to compassion collective your incredible

  94. Monique

    Tears of Joy, Marie! If everything is Figureoutable, I would become a Law of Attraction Master, create a life I love, and teach others to do the same! You so rocked it!

  95. So many things come to mind when I imagine truly BELIEVING that everything is figuroutable! It makes me realize how many limits I place on myself and how I accept the status quo.
    – I would figure out a way to buy a home for myself and my kids when we live in one of the most expensive areas in the country.
    – I would put more effort into my work to prevent underage drinking and substance abuse in our community – despite the resistance and daunting statistics.
    – I would take more action on a daily basis toward building my business instead of falling back on excuses like I’m “too busy” or “too tired”.
    – I would re-commit to my yoga practice despite my health challenges and (false) belief that I can no longer do it.
    The list goes on and on.
    Thanks for showing us how it’s done Marie. You’ve helped me so much through B-School and are such an inpiration. Thanks for keeping it real. You rock.

  96. Marie, if there was one–and there were lots and lots more believe me–but if there was one message I took away from b-school it was this line from your mom. I have heard it in my head dozens and dozens of times over the past two years. It has been an inspiration for me, truly. Yes–I can; Yes–we all can. So thank you so much your words and all you have inspired. I have figured out more technology, stepped way out of my comfort zone so many times, based on “figure-out-able.” Whew. Goals for me: unite this mantra with the metaphor of growing a garden to growing my business to the next level. With conscious integrity. Thanks again, Marie!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Amazing, Jeannie! <3

  97. I’ve never switched from being so emotional to laughing so much in one go! Absolutely brilliant storyteller as usual, Marie. This line was my favourite part of the whole talk – gave me shivers! “Meaning that NOTHING, no thing, no situation, no circumstance…will ever again stop you from moving ahead.” Thank you <3

  98. WOW Marie! Bravo for an amazing talk, you continue to wow us all the time 🙂 A true inspiration. thank you for being you <3 <3 <3

  99. Thank you Marie! Super inspired by your powerful intention to make it and to inspire others to make it. Your mama taught you well 🙂 My mama has been guiding me in spirit for many years now. Much love + good vibes!! XO

  100. Marie – I LOVED your story and your message is quite timely. I know deep down I believe anything is possible but even acting on it I have my ups and downs. Right now I’m working on my second novel, and growing my business, both are those require a lot of time and energy and attention. But I have to remind myself I can do this, I’m building a dream, I’ve seen success in the past and I will see it in the future. I will get to the next level, I will make big things happen. I will not give up. Because everything is figureoutable, I just need to keep reminding myself of that fact!

  101. Pamela Gold

    Brilliant and inspiring! I am going to share what I have to offer. I am going to launch, thanks in no part to B School, what I was destined to create. Thank you Marie, for EVERYTHING YOU ARE!

  102. Fab

    Amazing balls!!! Thank you!
    I’m going to figure out powerful and compassionate ways to communicate and collaborate with an ex who navigates this world in very different ways than I do and find solutions to co parent in respectful and friendly manners that it works not only for our son but for the highest good of all involved. We are all in this together! ??❤️
    Blessings
    Fab

  103. romani bays

    The greatest change I want to be a part of making in this world, is not about myself, it’s about peace and kindness to all living things… not just the human form…. I sign petitions daily and have been for many years, to try and make a difference.. to bring awareness to the holocaust for animals, the factory farming, the chickens, all types of birds, fish.. all creatures.. what I wish for is not impossible, that is why I will continue.. even tho it does seem impossible.. change doesn’t happen unless you try to make change… it will not happen in my lifetime… but I want kindness to ALL life… world veganism.. no more hunting, no more fishing, no more cruelty and captivity for our fellow Earthlings…

  104. A: To inspire and train a new generation of mom entrepreneurs, to show them they don’t have to settle for the status quo – racing home to pick up the kids from daycare, feeling guilty the entire time. To know that you CAN create a meaningful business from your ideas, skills and experience….but more importantly, that you are worthy of that type of freedom + success.

    Great talk, Marie. We’re going to make it.

  105. Gillian Thomas

    Marie, I listened to your message on Super Soul TV and I absolutely love it! Thank you for the reminder.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Awesome, thank you so much for tuning in, Gillian!

  106. Surabhi Avhad

    Hi Marie… You jacked me up with so much courage, belief and hope that I’m ready to take my life in my hands because it’s nobody else’s business, it’s mine. The answer to your question, I will design, make patterns and construct those 6 garments required for my graduation fashion show and I WILL DO IT IN TIME! Doesn’t matter if the captain (College) says we will be running late. I WILL make myself proud. THANK YOU SO MUCH ?❤

  107. So freakin’ good on so many levels. As a b-school grad, I’ve held your mama’s wise words in my heart ever since. And when I get scared or tell myself that I don’t think I’m cut out to handle the task at hand, I remember that “everything is figureoutable” and get myself right with God and let Him show me how. I’m writing a book and there are days when I think, “what on earth made me think I could do this?” and then I remember, “everything is figureoutable” and get myself right with God and let Him give me the words. It took me a long time to be where I am and there is a part of me that is so envious of your success at such a young age, but then I remember that God’s divine timing is always perfect and right on time. I’m grateful for you Marie and grateful to be teachable even at sixty!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      I so love this, Kathleen. Trusting in that divine timing of our lives is SO important and such a great reminder. We’re so grateful to have you in our B-School family! xo

  108. WOW — TRULY TRULY TRULY if I thought everything was figure-out-able … I would find a way to make the public school system work for EVERYONE (of all races, genders, religions, ability levels, giftedness, SES… EVERYONE) So we could REALLY See justice and equality start to evolve in a real and tangible way in this country …

  109. What an amazing talk! First, Marie, as you said in the email with this link, “And if you’ve ever have the mistaken idea that I always ‘have it all together’ — this one’s for you.”

    If there was any moment in that talk that you didn’t have it all together, girl, you are my new guru! Because I didn’t see one!

    As for the question, what would I do? Well, when you put in terms that “Everything is Figureoutable”, I would have to start with the simplest fact first and the rest will follow – if everything is figureoutable, I need to stop worrying about things not working out. After that, anything is possible – building a successful magazine, building a successful graphic design business, being an amazing mother and wife, taking a vacation…the list goes on.

    Thank you, Marie, for a positive start to my morning and life.

  110. Christina

    So awesome! I loved it, and I live by this mantra. I told someone the other day that I may not have all the natural talent in the world, but I am nothing if not determined. Someone else telling me that I can’t do something lights my fire like nothing else. I just look at them and say, “Oh, yeah? Watch me!” It may not be pretty, but I’ll get it done.

  111. Ahhhh! Love the video and your realness. It’s so refreshing! Been feeling the midlife questions popping up: Who am I? What next? What do I truly want and How do I do it? How? I figure it out!

  112. Everything is Figureoutable…dammit it’s finally time to learn Adobe Premiere 😉

    Thank you Marie for sharing a beautiful, vulnerable, powerful story with a message we can all apply and learn with.

    With gratitude, Karina

  113. WOW that was an amazing speech, Marie!

    Just like many others who have commented, your speech had me in tears while laughing as you truly owned that stage and demonstrated your brilliance as a storyteller. You reminded me of what my mom told my brothers and sisters and I, “Play the Hand You’ve Been Dealt”! Much like your mom, my mom was the most resourceful woman I’ve known and she never backed down from figuring things out to move our family forward.

    There are not enough words for me to express the gratitude I feel in my heart for you, your work and the timing of this message.

    Thank you.

  114. Alishia

    My favourite part was watching you walk out on stage. A moment of arrival. How absolutely breath-taking. And the cherry on top… a wonderfully crafted speech that took a simple moment with mom, expanded it to a deeply heart felt struggle with love and then further expanded it to apply to all the challenges in life we all have the opportunity to tackle. Truly inspiring! I hope to one day have a similar view to what you saw when walking out on that stage…. a profound opportunity to have such a deep impact while honouring the beauty and wisdom of those you love. Thank you for showing me what is possible.

  115. Brittany

    This was everything that I needed to hear and then some. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. One of the mostly powerful talks I have heard in awhile. I just started a new career and I have been struggling with my confidence. This reminded me that my thoughts are everything. It also reminded me that I am capable of anything I set my mind to.

  116. Nailed it! Wow! What a great talk, thank you, Marie.

    So in answer to your question, maybe I hold a similar belief inside because I wouldn’t do anything different to what I’m doing now. My mission is to decrease the statistics linked to suicide and homicide rates directly caused by domestic violence. My ultimate mission is to help people jump on a journey to a better them, so they can see beyond the pain they are experiencing in their life today. I’m on this journey and all the pieces of the puzzle are appearing in divine time.
    When I couldn’t change the facts, and I couldn’t change the laws (on a State level let alone an international level that I was aiming for!), I was inspired to help people change themselves and change the support that’s out there for them – and to help them believe and cling to the hope from this notion – that nothing is unfigureoutable – even in these crushing, seemingly-hopeless, relationship situations. I offer practical, forward-moving support to women AND men. I’m just in the process of wrapping up my book, which I hope to have published and then I’m creating a couple of programs to aid my mission and I am excited to see the continued journey ahead unfold.

  117. Ruth Ann

    Thank you Marie for the inspiration I needed to not be afraid to go after my dream. I love Australia but am too “old” to get a work visa there. It may seem selfish. I don’t have this grand vision of saving the world – though I do love and help people twice weekly with my volunteer work. I just want to live my life in that wonderful place. When I am in Australia I feel a sense of absolute peace and contentment. I love it and believe it loves me too (I know. Sounds crazy). I’m meant to live there but don’t know how to accomplish it. It’s figureoutable though. I gave up too easily, but your talk has motivated me to keep moving towards my heart’s desire. Thank you for your love and your wisdom.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      That’s wonderful, Ruth Ann and not selfish at all. Our hearts are wise, and I like to remember it can all be part of a grander plan. Keep seeking ways to fulfill your heart’s desire, and please do comment to let us know when you make it to Australia! 🙂

      • Ruth Ann

        Thank you for the encouragement Caroline! It means a lot. I’ll let you know when it happens. I’m not in a hurry and am trusting and believing that everything will fall into place as it should. I have the courage now to work towards what I want and to not give up in defeat because I’m “too old.” Life is good.

  118. Keegan

    This was such a great start to my Tuesday – thank you. (And I’m taking notes on stage presence. Loved all the motion during the story!) Admittedly, it feels like I’m putting myself out there commenting publicly like this with my answer and that honestly surprises me a little. I’m usually pretty outspoken and definitely not shy but this is coming from a much deeper place than I’m accustomed to sharing. Love this idea of ‘figureoutable’ and it’s pretty spot on for my own belief system. My answer is a bit more clear than it has ever been:
    I will work for myself & create days that have room for quiet AND connection.
    I will surround myself with family and strong, real friends.
    I will cook – finally, I will cook.
    …and somewhere in between it all, I will write.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      So beautiful, Keegan.

  119. Mira Sophia

    Marie-dearest,
    This was deeply profound. I’m drenched in tears.. I know it’s important to me to comment right now..

    Our mamas could be sisters from another mother..
    I grew up in America, a first generation from Europe with mom (and dad, too) both knowing they had to figure it out because returning to communist Europe was a non-negotiable after having tasted the expansion America had offered. I grew up with this double-whammy gift and always knew that my parents were special and in a big sense, original. Taking interest as a very young child in paying attention to how they operated was fascinating to me. To this day I live from their influence where nothing will fail under me. I excel in whatever I set my mind to. But what is the top-of-the-food-chain-important to me I haven’t allowed myself to fully go there yet. When it comes to growing as an individual who can influence my sisters around the world, to the point that it could only happen in my dreams, I stop cold. The same physics are not applied.
    I’ve succeeded and excelled in marriage, in raising our children so far because it’s always felt so easy to me. I’ve known from forever that my biggest growth will lie in creating a mega business from scratch where I teach the world how I figured out a lot in life without going and getting high degrees in school, but instead listening to myself and choosing my education a la carte and what I deemed as useful for me. But the most educational platform I’ve had hands down- real world experience. I want to show my sisters how to relate to each other, to be each other’s cheerleaders, to communicate, to be present, to be whole, to connect to our womanhood, to excel in life and know without a shadow of a doubt what she wants to be remembered for.
    I know everything is attainable, but the tapes I run in my head so far have been, “it’s already being done, how will this be original and useful?”
    Thank you Marie for your unstoppableness, your heart and vision for a better world. I want to join you. By saying this aloud, I feel I’ma step closer to awakening the napping siren that’s been lying dormant within me.
    May you all be blessed. <3

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much for sharing, Mira Sophia. While I was reading your comment, this other amazing MarieTV episode popped to mind about “it’s all being done” since this episode speaks to that exactly! http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/01/all-been-done/ I thought you might enjoy checking that one out if you hadn’t already 🙂

  120. Great job Marie. I wasn’t sure where it was going at one point but you told funny, endearing stories that kept me glued. Loved it! Thank you for sharing

  121. Yoav luz

    I ENJOY IT EVERY SEC.\:)

  122. Katie

    Marie thank you so much for your sharing, your stories, and teaching. I always gain something really useful from your presentations (and of course b school freaking rocks so thanks to Marie and team for that, too).

    I have this belief that people want service and they want love but that don’t want to PAY for love mastery. You see, I have a love coaching business that is pretty much starting out and I haven’t been able to lock in any new clients yet. I think that perhaps this is due to my inability to shift to the next level in my leadership and confidence skills surrounding business. Keeping is small has been easy and comfortable but it definitely isn’t serving myself or others as well as it could. I’ve made leaps and bounds in my overall confidence level over the past several years and I OWN that, but can’t seem to translate that to my business as of yet. Doubts about being too empathic (can someone like me really handle running a business?) and not being money or tech savvy has me feeling a bit freaked out and uncertain.

    If I operated 100% from a place of everythingisfigureoutable, (instead of like 90%), I would reprogram my brain to have more faith in my leadership skills and abilities surrounding business in general. Would love to hear your thoughts, if possible.

    Thanks much!! Xo Katie

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      You can do it, Katie! It’s really tough when you’re first starting out and trying to build your initial client base, but your business is definitely figureoutable. I think you’ll like this MarieTV episode where Marie is talking about what to do if people don’t want to pay for what you teach: http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/02/teach-online/

      • Katie

        Thanks much Mandy!!!

  123. Kathy

    This made me laugh and tear up, what a beautiful story. Thanks for sharing and making my day. On my computer, I have taped a quote from Albert Einstein who said “I am thankful to all those who said no to me. It’s because of them I did it myself.”

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      What a fantastic quote! Those are definitely some words to live by. 🙂

  124. Richard

    Thanks Marie for you talk. It is always a pleasure to hear from you. As this is inspirational.
    I want to make a great gift to the world, something evolutionary that reflect the love I feel for life.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s wonderful, Richard! We can’t wait to see you share your gifts and talents with the world. 🙂

  125. funmi

    Wonderful Video………………Everything is figureoutable. Proud of you Marie

  126. Yep. This is it. This message is everything. It is the antidote to fear, to apathy, to avoidance, to cancer of the spirit. You echo what another Jersey-born thinker, Walt Whitman, famously wrote: “I contain multitudes.”
    Thanks, Marie, for the powerful reminder that we are all divinely blessed and, therefore, limitless.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      YES! That’s such a beautiful way to put it. <3

  127. Amazing talk! Happy tears:-) Love and appreciate your transparency.

  128. Just love you Marie. God bless and keep you always. xoxoxo

  129. Marie – This came at the perfect time! Since a layoff in March, I’ve been slowly pursuing starting my own business (while looking for a job). I make strides every day and believe the universe is working with me, to help me help others – my passion. But, we all have self-doubt from time to time. This IS figureoutable, I will get there and make this happen and solve the problems along the way! Thank you for all you do yo inspire us.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      I totally hear you, Kimberly. Self-doubt creeps up and it’s awful. But the good news is that it’s figureoutable and Marie has a number of MarieTV episodes to help! I think you’ll like these: http://www.marieforleo.com/category/overcome-fear-and-self-doubt/ Congrats on building your business! We’re cheering you on. 🙂

  130. Kathy

    We need to first heal our bodies and minds. Love yourself with healthy foods and healthy thoughts.

  131. Emily

    Marie Forleo! You rocked it !! … I loved the vulnerability of your talk, and I could see and hear your mom like she was in the room!! Thank you.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s awesome! Mama Forleo is a wise lady and I’m so glad she felt so real to you as you listened to Marie’s talk. 🙂

  132. Clare Bresnahan

    Wow, Marie. Thank you for reminding us of what’s possible. If I owned the mantra “everything is figureoutable,” I would run for office and become a decision maker on how we figure out the complex issues our nation and our world faces.

  133. Inspiring story! Really needed to hear this today <3

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s wonderful! I’m so glad Marie’s message came at just the right time. 🙂

  134. Marie, I have goose bumps all over! Thank you for this wise and inspirational talk. I will watch it whenever I need a reminder, that I can do it, yeah 🙂 You are great. Sandra

  135. Laura

    *I Cried* Marie you are so inspiring, JESUS!!! Thank you for everything you share with us. I just made this banner for my office door with your Mantra for Today: EVERYTHING IS FIGURE-OUTABLE. Your mother should be, always, incredibly proud of yourself. Blessings!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s so cool, Laura! I hope your new office door banner brings you a spark of inspiration every time you see it. 🙂

  136. Amanda

    What will I do? I’ll finish my master’s thesis and get my PhD in civil engineering. This will enable me to work on more complicated projects as work, as well as open doors to let me teach civil engineering at the university level.
    Who will I become? I’ll be a loving, kind, thoughtful wife, daughter, sister, and friend, and a competent engineer.
    What will I heal/transform/transcend? I will transform my current life into a better one. I will help transform small communities in my state by helping to provide them with better water distribution and collection forms.

    Aside, a big thank you to Marie and crew for all the hard work. You all put out quality content each week that is inspirational. Getting a hit of MarieTV early in the week helps set the tone for the rest of my week and gives me energy to keep going. Thank you.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      It sounds like you’re on a wonderful path—congrats! It’s so awesome that you’re using your talents as an engineer to help communities have better water distribution and collection. We’re proud of you and we’re cheering you on! 🙂 And thank you for your kind words about MarieTV; it truly means the world to us.

  137. That honestly brought tears, Marie. What an amazing talk, especially after just finishing B-School!
    If everything is figureoutable, then I will figure out how to fully make my living from my folk band and other music projects. I will remember that everything is either a positive easy path, or just a challenge to work around.
    Thank you again, Marie, I needed this!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Woohoo! Congrats on finishing B-School and for taking important steps to grow your business and share your music with the world. We’re thrilled you’re here and are so glad you’re feeling inspired after watching Marie’s SuperSoul talk!

  138. “The consciousness of a victorious human life is born of that faith that dares to challenge each recurring incident of life that confronts us with the appalling spectral of human limitations with the unfailing declaration: ‘Even if I cannot do this there lives within me someone who can and will do it.'” Indeed, “Everything is figureoutable.” Bless you.

  139. No words can describe how thankful I am with this piece of yours from Super Soul Marie. I am miles away from you but it didn’t stop you from influencing me to always look at how incredible and wonderful life is. THANK YOU!

    Now, with your question…

    I’m now in doubt again.. Doubting my dreams, my capabilities, my worth, my future. My dream is to own a travel agency business and travel the world. I have relatives I want to help lift their lives because they’ve lived all their lives in poverty. I believe that having a business will fulfill that goal. I’m also a firm believer that the world is meant to be explored. Sadly, some people (including me) couldn’t see this as possible because they don’t have enough money to do just that. That’s why I wanted to build this business ’cause I’ll be hitting those goals all at once. But, it seemed that things aren’t going my way. I have already made the necessary research and attended a seminar on how to run this business. But, I don’t have the capital yet and I don’t know where and how to obtain it. I felt like my dreams are slowly slipping away from my hands.

    But, slowly I’m beginning to realize that great things need time to grow. That’s why right now, I’m doing things that would lead me to my dreams with the resources I have. I’m not going to wait that the money I need to start the business would land on my hands. I’ll start small, connect with the right people, establish my name, and I’m positive that these things will build up and will push me closer to my dreams.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much for sharing your journey with us, Dulce. I know it’s stressful when things are moving slow, but starting small is really smart. Marie has an episode of MarieTV about this, too, that I think you’ll like: http://www.marieforleo.com/2014/07/start-small-or-sucky/ I’m so glad you’re planting the seeds of your dreams so they can grow, flower, and thrive.

  140. Thank you so much for this! It brought tears to my eyes as well as joy to my heart. My father, who was a polio survivor, always taught me that you can do anything you “put your mind to.” He had learned it from his mother who expected him to do all the things the other kids were doing even though my dad wore a leg brace and walked with crutches – a “functional cripple” after enduring over 100 experimental surgeries to combat the effects of polio. He never complained, he never felt sorry for himself, he loved and helped others all his life. He’s been gone for 8 years now but as I sit here writing this with tears streaming I know he would echo your words and say “you’re going to make it. You’re going to be okay. You’re going to raise your daughter and make a great life for her. You’re going to continue to make a difference in people’s lives. You’re can do whatever you set your mind to!” Thank you Marie for this gift.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Wow, wow, wow! Your dad sounds like an incredible man. I’m so glad Marie’s message made you think of him and the wisdom he shared in his life. <3

  141. Tabitha

    Beautifully conveyed, Marie.

  142. Helen

    Gurl…you had me at the edge of my seat crying and laughing and becoming ever more inspired to move onward, make that change, make a difference…no matter what! Thank you, thank you, thank YOU!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Onward and upward! You got this. 🙂

  143. Marie,

    You are so inspiring and engaging! I could not wait to hear if you made your flight

    Thanks for sharing your light + inspiring us all,

    With gratitude,
    Kristi

  144. Natalie

    I loved hearing your story Marie on Soul Sessions. I was really inspired by the stories of your mother and her “figuring out” everything! That’s the kind of mom I aspire to be, especially now that I’m without a job. I’m using your story, inspiration and resources to help guide me to my truer and more meaningful purpose. Don’t quite know exactly what that is, but hope to figure it out and get there soon. Thank you!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      We’ve got our fingers crossed you’ll find the clarity you’re looking for soon. Marie has an episode of MarieTV about finding your special gift, which I think you’ll find helpful during this time of searching: http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/03/special-gifts/

  145. Phenomenal! Your question at the end is the key to it all! I know with utmost belief that everything is figureoutable and I’m smiling because of it. 🙂 xo

  146. You SOOO rocked that talk, Marie!! Such a powerful speaker and presence. Thank you for your humor, heart and huge soul song you gave through the Tropicana Orange radio and Barcelona successes.

    I would figure out how to offer my singing gift to the world again.

    I

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much, Laura! We’ve got our fingers crossed you’ll make beautiful music through your singing. I know putting yourself out there and doing your creative work is scary, so I wanted to share my favorite episode of MarieTV, which is all about living a creative life: http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/09/elizabeth-gilbert-big-magic/ I think you’ll find it really helpful and inspiring!

  147. What would I do? How would I transform? What would I heal? Such powerful questions. If everything were figureoutable I would touch the lives of thousands of women by creating my Coaching practice to help women who come from abusive backgrounds which led to PTSD and some sort of addiction dependency. These women are now in Recovery and are Inspired to embrace their Desires by stepping into the Light. There may be roadblocks of false beliefs in their way, but by the Powerful questions I ask and the Self commitments they make – their Desires are manifested. All of this is possible because I hold the space for these women to remember who they REALLY are – Divine Beings placed on this Earth with unique gifts and talents. Through my work, I have financial liberation and comfortably support myself and daughter. I have freedom of time to volunteer at her school. I am an example to my daughter of a strong woman owning her power through actions of self-love and Divine remembrance.

  148. Thank you for the powerful message. Don’t let a roadblock stop you! Everything is figureoutable!

  149. Marie! I loved hearing the origins of “Everything is figureoutable”. Your mom is amazing! Her inventiveness, resourcefulness, and tenacity are so inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story with us. Love, Deirdre

  150. I was laughing, then crying, then more laughing, and lastly you left me with a feeling that I can do anything. You knocked it out of the park! Thank you so much for this!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Yay! I’m so glad you’re feeling empowered. You got this, and we’re cheering you on!

  151. yes – everything is figureoutable! thank you for this message!

  152. I cried at my desk just now. So powerful and it’s soo from the heart and that’s palpable. My figure-out-able is to create my own meditations using my training as an NLP practitioner, spiritual seeker, and life-philosophy junkie. I’m so happy to have Marie Forleo share her stories and wisdom.

    Sending everyone so much love right now! Let’s stand together and shine!!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s so cool, Monica! We’re big believers in the power of meditation (Marie has an episode on her practice here if you haven’t seen it yet: http://www.marieforleo.com/2015/11/meditation/) We’re sending positive energy your way as you make it happen. 🙂

  153. Thank you for sharing this personal story ! Very inspiring 🙂 and a great way to remind us that we all have this power within ourselves to figure out how to change the things we’d like to change…

  154. I am SO moved-thank you Marie! You are an inspiration

  155. Brittany

    Amazing job Marie! You had me crying on the bus ride to work this morning… You are an inspiration. #everythingisfigureoutable #hugtheslog ❤️

  156. lina

    Beautiful and inspiring!! I would act as the speck of God that I am.

    I will speak in the present tense as to manifest this as if it exists now!!

    I provide a Love Human Healing Center that is not for profit (accessible to all in need). In these nationwide healing centers, there is abundant wholesome food prepared with love and nutrition in mind (cooking classes for those who do not know how to cook wholesome meals and nutrition explained), shelter and warmth for those that do not have it and education on how to achieve your dreams. Practical education that allows you to tap into your desires and needs so that each person can awaken and we can come together as the specks of God that we all are and liberate ourselves from the bondage that holds us back in love and life and unity.

    This is the first step, how I will get there I do not know. This is my journey. I can start by opening my heart more and accepting everyone as my brother and sister.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Oh my gosh, I love what you shared about how we’re all specks of God and how we have to open our hearts more and accept everyone as our brothers and sisters. That’s beautiful! Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us and for your desire to make the world a better place.

  157. Becky

    Thank you Marie for being so transparent and real.

  158. Marie,

    You absolutely KILLED it!!!! Thank you for being so open, honest and vulnerable (something a ton of people talk about but don’t actually demonstrate).

    Love your “everything is figure-out-able” attitude and I’m inspired by how you applied it to Compassion Collective Mother’s Day campaign. Appreciate you sharing that opportunity with all of us 🙂

    With sass and class,
    Alex

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank you SO much, Alex! And thank you for your support of The Compassion Collective and for your big heart. We love your sass and class! 🙂

  159. Glynn

    So inspirational Marie! Thank you thank you thank you

  160. kajsa ingelsson

    I will become someone who inspires other people to take action and end this environmentally destructive society we are living in and replacing it with something that works both for us, the planet and the animals living on it.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s AWESOME, and so important!

  161. Marie! You are such a great storyteller. I wish I could have been there live. Thank your mom for the reminder that everything really is figureoutable! “No circumstance will ever again stop you from moving ahead.” You rock!

  162. Congratulations Marie. This was an amazing, incredible discussion. I often feel those moments of having someone say “You aren’t going to make it, ” or “You are going to do so great,” goes much deeper and transcends to other aspects of life.

    Last Memorial Day I left a relationship that should have been left years before, but I was afraid. I was afraid because I had no money, we shared a business together that he threatened to sue me for, we shared a home, a dog, a life.. He was my person and while the relationship was terribly, terrifying and unhealthy, he was also my safety net.

    Finally I couldn’t anymore. I decided that I don’t care if I had to move back in with mom and dad, all the way across the country, borrow money from everyone I knew, quit my passion of training at crossfit, get a 9-5 job I hated or give up my dream of running a fitness business, it would be worth it to leave that relationship. I knew I could temporarily give up the things I loved than to give up the dream of ever being fully happy.

    So I took the leap. And here I am today, in my own apartment, in the exact location I want to be in.. Running a new business that I love and feel passionately about.. With my dog.. In a wonderful relationship with someone who wants to celebrate life with me.. Going to Regionals with my Crossfit team.

    Because it all was, and still is, figure-out-able.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      So amazing, Kyra! Huge kudos to you for taking that leap and building a life you love. Kick some butt at regionals 🙂

  163. Great talk Marie!! Congrats on being on stage with the one and only Oprah! Your words have really challenged me to use your mantra that ‘everything is figureoutable’ as a lens through which to view opportunity. It opens the mind to infinite possibilities! Thanks for the eye-opening and soul-opening words.

  164. Hell yeah! I was so moved by how you told your story, the real was and honesty in it.

    And the sense of POSSIBILITY you created, and the calling for personal responsibility in the matter of change and action.

    When I embrace “everything is figureoutable,” I’m clear that is finish my book (and wrote several more) and be playing on much bigger stages for women to see, and activate, their pure potential. I’d be giving money away in a much bigger quantity to causes I believe in. I’d be showing up as the leader I am. Game on. Thank you for the reminder. I already knew this to be true, but you are an absolute freakin’ rockstar.

    PS this first book I’m writing is all about how relationships are truly he number 1 thing we care about most, and how to improve them. So the story about you and Josh landed 🙂

    With love and gratitude for what you do and who you are,
    Sage

  165. Laura

    Marie,
    Congratulations on a phenomenal accomplishment. It must blow your mind to think of the millions of people you were able to reach with your talk.
    I am wrestling with how my childhood beliefs have silently limited me. If everything is figureoutable I can tell my internal nine-year-old that:
    1. Circumstances beyond my control were not my fault. I release myself from the familiar but entrapping practice of self-blame.
    2. Nothing is too much to handle so I don’t have to run at the first sign of trouble. I am capable. I am effective.
    3. I am worthy of time and attention and care. I do not have to be ill or a hot mess or the walking wounded or the best in show to garner attention. I am worthy of resting in the kind attention of loving presence.
    If, indeed, everything is figureoutable I am free to heal from a childhood wounding of losing my sister to cancer and losing the presence of my family to their own grief. I am free to claim my authority and live my life as an artist and a healer. And I am free to enjoy getting my little baby business off the ground and imagine it forward in abundance. And I am free finally to quiet the stories that preemptively kept me away from the messiness of love. I am free to stop fighting my life’s history and just be.
    Thank you for your work, Marie.

  166. Nedrra Lanakila

    When you stepped out on that stage last month, after Oprah said “Marie FOR-leo!!!”, there was a squeal (a SQUEAL!) to the left of me, screams in front of me, and of course that was in addition to my own extra-enthusiastic clapping and cheering. We all calmed down to listen and watch you deliver the impact of the story with extra zest through your physical movements (all the pics I took of you are blurs btw).
    Then we all shot out of seats to applaud you. With love. With…pride! We looked at each other and the group question was essentially, “Do you know Marie?” As in, do YOU know MY friend?!
    One of the two seated before me said, “I took B School last year” …obviously an insider to simply mention B School with no other qualifier.
    The other in front of me said, “I’m going next year!”
    The young one to my side squealed, “No!! But I have watched EVERY SINGLE YouTube I could find of her – at least three times!!!!!!!”
    And I had the proud moment to exclaim, “I’m taking BSchool right now!!”
    FYI: Marie, honey, we out here love you. And we are proud.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Oh my gosh, that’s so sweet, Nedrra. We’re so grateful you were there in person, and it’s so amazing that you were surrounded with other B-Schoolers! We truly do have the absolute best community in the world, and we’re so honored to have you as a part of it. <3 <3

  167. Christina

    Marie, thank you for sharing your talk, I really had hoped to go but the price was a hindrance at this time. You are a wonderful sharer!
    When a person” gets it”, their lives are easy because of the belief that “everything is figureoutable” , they are in tuned to what it is not to fret about things that don’t go the way they want , they are flexible! That is the essence! If something in their lives are not going well, the path might change a bit, but the path is open and another should open. At times it is human nature to be overwhelmed by life and miss the magic of “figureoutable”. To those times: be quiet , define the problem, and realize that you are off in the ease of what your life should be, yes we sometimes have to do things to make ends meet and not have ideal jobs or scenarios . But that is the charm of life and the wonderful stories that you’ll look back on when you reach your ideal. The grateful life is the magic. Think of all the good all the times and then in the moments that give you trouble will be “figureoutable” be creative!

  168. Loved your talk, Marie, even more so knowing how much work you put into preparing it. I do believe that “everything is figureoutable” and my most recent application of that is that hey, I don’t actually have to figure it out all by myself. MarieTV has taught me so many things. I love your positive approach and how your advice crosses all areas of life. Being someone who can easily slide down the slippery slope of not good enough or not smart enough, your work gives me that regular kick in the pants I need to stay pointed in a positive direction. Thank you so much for all you do.

  169. Emma Greenwood

    Very good, Marie. You were one of my favourite talks from the event (watched online). EVERYTHING IS FIGURE-OUT-ABLE! There really are times when this seems so untrue, but everything does always work out, maybe not how we wanted it to, or when we wanted it to, but in the end, all’s well. Wishing you all the very best, Emma x

  170. Andrea

    Wow Marie….this talk had tears running down my eyes!
    Thank you for being open, honest and transparent. Know that I never missed a Marie Q&A Tuesday and love you to pieces 🙂
    After 13 years, I found myself in the exact same situation…and when you told your story, it was like listening to my own. Yes, indeed, everything in figure-out-able!
    I use that ‘Marie term’ every time I get stuck, or tell myself I don’t know how.
    With recent loss of my father on Xmas day, I had the same moment as you had at the airport, when they told you, you are not going to make it.
    I returned from Europe in February, and had a ‘come to Jesus’ moment. Ever since, I am restructuring my whole business and my life. And I know that I will figure it out.
    I don’t have all of my ducks in a row yet – but they are all in the same pond, so I have at least that going for me 😉
    And I know this too, is figure-out-able!
    Thank you for being you…and thank you for the inspiration you bring each and every week!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Andrea, it sounds like you have a lot of things on your plate, but moving in a beautiful direction. I love the idea of having all the ducks in the same pond.

      I’m so sorry to hear that you lost your father this Christmas, and we’re sending our sincerest condolences and so much love your way.

  171. Thank you Marie! As everyone else said, you rocked it! Every week I look forward to your emails. I feel inspired and excited over and over again! I want to help heal the planet by raising awareness about the significance of veganism. I’ve recently become vegan after watching “Cowspiracy”, mind you, I’m a Puerto Rican girl who grew up in Brooklyn, NY eating chicken and pork on a daily basis (oh yeah, and cheese pizza!) So I never in a million years saw myself becoming a vegan. But once I became aware of the amount of water and land being used to raise these animals to satisfy our own greed…one that is destroying our planet at a dangerously rapid pace and causing so many species to become extinct…I knew the time is now. So I got a job serving at one of the best vegan restaurants in Tacoma, WA (where I live now) and my mind was blown! I never knew vegan food could be sooo delicious and fulfilling in so many ways! I’m hoping through my photography and words I can inspire, as you do, and raise awareness! Becoming a vegan is fun, it’s joining a community..a movement, it’s delicious, it’s healthy and it will help our planet begin to heal itself and thrive. As a new wife, I one day would like children and eventually grand children…and I want to make sure they have a healthy home to live in♡

  172. Daniela

    look Marie , I don *t want to abuse your time and coments space here..but

    your experience with your mom and wise advice that everythink is
    FIGUREOUTABLE! impressed me to tears!

    I*m glad that you passed well the 7 th years crossroad with your man Josh,
    I*ve ruined two relationship at th year that just wonder …

    I*m just now able to share with you a nice story about a 3 hours escale in NY
    noit because I believe it was like magic, but because in the end it was the souls bonds to make it happen!

    summer 97, a trip that was supposed to be honeymoon after marriage in NL, marriage delayed and never happened , but the trip not! me pregnant and man combined a business trip with a honey moon like vacation for me..

    it happen something strange as me pregnant , rushed my man to rent a car, to travel the NY to the Empire States City even when we don t know the city , and the traffic jam.. just in 3 hours escale in NY from Amsterdam final destination Los Angeles..

    yes we get teh road travel free as we where kings of teh road, was what I name the Universe conspiracy to free the pathway and condens the time to make it happen! yup, it happen twice also in Madrid , but that s another story! 🙂

    so reaching the empire States Building, finding a park place free under…getting inside, surprise! the lobby was majestic but full with turists! so no chance to reach the top and make my pictures with my proudly Canon camera exposed on my pregnant belly..

    my man was upset and sitting on some stairs said..

    I can*t imagine you fooled me once more to do crazy things! is impossible to reach the airplane just in time, or the roof of this building!

    i said excited, don*t worry, we get it! 🙂

    looking arround I meet the eyes of a extremelly thinny black lady in some uniform, maybe some green up to dark suit ? so smilling in my no english knowledge that time said.. me romanian, man Holland, 3 hours los Angeles we 3 tall poeple(see the hand showing tall than hand on the belly 🙂

    pleease! help! that was it! she make us the sign to wait! my man was eyes rolling up nervous not sure if he talk with her.. than we wait.. meanwhile my man said right now we go to the airport! aso

    the lady come, give to him the tickets , we look at the wait line and she said.. when you hear they ask for you just walk to teh elevator it may take you up!

    thank you, thank you!

    well we hear than like on central station for teh trains

    persons 3 hours escale may come …

    it was the most majestic walk to the elevator , without daring to look to the people on the right side waiting line.. for shame..

    we reach it I make my pictures arround like for panorama choosing the next reperpoint after another , than drive down give back the car and get the airplane …

    strange enough the fact that the pictures get just mist! not the whole role,
    teh pictures face to face with the Liberty Statue me hanging on a bridge wood, behind the World Trade Center towers the joben hut from France on the head! what a feeling!

    soo deep and soo important with the left hand up like boxing, facing the cold Liberty Statue! it was a flash of emotions and gravity that may never forget it!

    the beauty part of the story was that before we live, as my man payed before the tickets she came with ..I refuse to go until my man gave me 10 dollars! he refuse and said..you re here in USA not Romania to bribe someone..

    I said..is not for the bribe! than he said ok, than one dollar is enough!

    I was red with angryness but even so I make it small in my right palm and get search for my lady.. she appeared within people…so I get her my hand but palming into her teh dollar! she rise the hands up not taking it as burned, said don*t!

    i said small value but dream real, please! take it!

    when you need mostly teh help may come to you the way you act!
    she accept it! and I can say I love that soul communicationg more with signs from my part but her eyes reacted warm as understood! heartfully people can communicate.. that s the proof!

    Is not sure I may recognize that lady ever but I count hardly on the fact that somehow some registrations have catched the story! to help me find her and give thanks!

    but between us, if ONE DOLLAR SHARED RESPONSIBILITY WORLDWIDE TO MAKE THE WORLD A BETTER PLACE AND FULFILL OUR KIDS DREAMS COULD BECAME INTERNATIONAL TREATY; I SAY IT IS THE OLD ISRAEL DUTY TO PAY THE TAX TEMPLE DIDRACHMA! AFTER EXILE::

    THINK ABOUT THE LEGAL KING IMPORTANCE TO COME BACK AND SHOW US THE GOD TEMPLE LAYOUT EZEKIEL 21.25; 43:10-12

    AND ON THAT FOUNDATIONS AND HEADSTONE TO BUILD NOTHING LESS THAN PARADISE WORLDWIDE::

    It start from the education and when God teachings is missing from science CERN or political policies.. count the society huge humanity price.. Georgia Stone pays no value on the people, kill it! in many ways.. as part of the NEW WORLD ORDER treaty..

    we can t afford to loose no single soul worldwide because God knows us all before the birth! and have a purpose for us all!

    Just this.. I start to read the Bible since dec 2008! is for sure that my life could be otherwise if know it before.. that was it the ONE DOLLAR story.. the whole world own America very much so I believe now is time to pay back and restore teh HUMANIYT FOUNDATION like in teh USA forefathers, IN GOD WE TRUST! and WORK MUST HAVE GOLD STANDARD VALUE not the opium maps politics display.. worldwide.. and wars and payed prostitution on teh name of **civil rights* are not!

  173. Bridget

    My finances are figure-outtable. Eradication of debt and creation of wealth is figure-outtable. My work is figure-outtable. Living my dreams is within my reach. Thank you- so much. This one changed me.

  174. Outstanding, Marie! Kudos!
    It has been an unbelievably difficult 15 months. Last year my mom, 85, went in the hospital for heart surgery. Her recovery didn’t go as expected. She’s not able to live on her own and requires around the clock care.
    Her house was a disaster. She’s always been a collector and pack rat. Years ago my dad bought the house next to them to store all their antique collections. So it was up to me to clean out the houses–ack! It was back breaking work and heartbreaking, too. All that my sweet parents had worked so hard for and now it really means nothing, except to me.
    With the help of my beloved and a couple of close friends, we made our way through it, although even after 2 estate sales, we’re still not even close to done! 🙂
    During this last year, we worked, but we didn’t have any extra time to devote to biz development. As you can imagine, that’s not good. God provided for us last year when normally we’d have struggled. Now we’re back to pushing again, but not without more sad issues. My beloved’s mom passed away in March after months of struggling with dementia.
    This was right in the 3rd week of B-School. I felt overwhelmed, untethered, and generally frustrated with life. The night my fiance’s mom died I went to a meeting where our business was featured for a talk about patents. I went for us because I knew it would be important to our future. And the law firm had done so much work on researching other companies similar to what we’re doing, it just seemed not right to not go. BUT, my sweet friend and mom-in-law-to-be was dying–it was a HUGE dilemma.
    Going with Marie’s idea of everything is Figureoutable, I went, having the feeling it would be great feedback. Oh boy, was it! Turns out we have an excellent chance at getting a patent. The firm that was there that night talking with me about it is a huge firm here in Dallas. They do a lot of pro bono work. They are taking on our IP patent for free!!!! This was a miracle of profound depths. I was also able to make it back before my beloved’s mom passed.
    At a point where we were both ready to just throw up our hands and give up, we stayed on the path, believing some how, some way, that all was Figureoutable–of course that meant knowing that God was making things happen behind the scenes!
    The last 2 1/2 months have been incredible. B-School was just what I needed and taking that leap of faith and signing up when there was 0 money coming in was huge. But we’re about to launch our first program in June. AND we’ve had so many other wonderful things happen, just by being fearless and not being afraid to ask and to try!! There’s too many to mention here, but if you’re going through a rough time, no matter how big or small, just keep pushing, trying and putting one foot in front of the other–hour by hour. It is all Figureoutable! We’re still pushing; we’re not out of the proverbial woods yet, but this is my declaration to tell you all: We will be! And so will you!! Sorry for the book length 🙂 but you’re not alone.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Wow, such an incredible story, Krisandra. It sounds like you’ve been through so much, and your story is such a beautiful example for what’s possible when you keep staying the course and figuring things out. Thank you so much for sharing, and we’re sending our very best wishes your way!

      • Krisandra

        Thanks so much, Caroline! I appreciate that so much! Working on my course today and so grateful for all of it! Thanks to Team Forleo, too! You guys are really amazing and have so much to keep up with–YOU ROCK!! 😀

  175. Lisa De Nicola

    Marie!! What a great talk you held at Oprah’s Super Soul Session – LOVED, LOVED, LOVED it! I actually saw it on TV but then had to go online to get the FULL session. So inspirational and loved hearing about what a warrior and brave soul your mom is! Right from the heart and definitely relatable 🙂 I was happy to hear that you and Josh celebrated your anniversary, Bless you both! 🙂

    Soooo, the loaded question you asked – I am still in the process of exploring what I would do, etc. BUT I do know, I have a genuine passion in helping people and using my voice to impact the lives of many in a way that will allow them to see their own lives in a positive light and embark on a journey that will allow them to pursue their dreams. I have overcome a few of my own hurdles and still working on my spiritual path so I am looking forward to tapping into my life purpose and exploring my options 🙂 Thank you again for being you. xo

  176. You are a dynamic speaker and delivered a wonderful message. You always give me that extra little push when I need it most. Thank You!

  177. Wow. I don’t cry enough, but this … this had me running for tissue! I’ll continue to work everyday to open my mind to the what ifs; and when I stumble, I’ll think of the orange & the overstuffed piñata. Thank you Marie & God bless!

  178. Michele

    What a perfect start to my morning!!!!!!! Such a heart expanding inspirational video. I loved it! and YOU!!!!! Thank you for having the courage to bring your gifts to the world. I am ever so grateful you did.

  179. Dana

    Dear Marie,
    This was the most inspiring speach. Your work is a blessing, and I’m grateful for having the time to watch it. Full of emotions, this video made me cry. I felt vulnerable listening to your story. However, I got more courage to do whatever it takes and stand up for my dreams.
    Marie, thank you from the button of my heart for sharing your inspiring story, “everything is figureoutable”. It meant the world to me.
    Love your work and love you ❤️
    Dana
    Xoxo

  180. My mother also grew up in the projects of Newark, NJ. Well, she began life in a very comfortable middle-class setting but due to some mistakes her dad, the family was shifted into the projects when he went to jail for 20 years. Anyhow, like Marie’s mom, she found a good life for herself and my brothers and I had a nice upbringing.
    Since B-School, “everythingisfigureoutable” has been my motto and I teach it to my own child.
    –Terina Nicole

  181. I love the your mama’s statement that; everything is ‘FIGURE OUT ABLE’! It is for sure! As a result of listening to your talk this morning, I will complete my preparation for my video taping session next week. I will courageously continue the section on how educators can create a positive ripple effect in their school communities. My focus is on; “Our thoughts create our words, our words create our actions, our actions create our habits and our habits create our life”. (great timing to hear your session) I will also continue to inspire, empower and ignite individuals to live joyful and fulfilling lives! Thank you for the challenge Marie! I accept!

  182. Such words of wisdom and so well told!! This message is so relevant for the times we find ourselves in… Moving forward is the only solution!
    Thank you Marie for using your gift to inspire and teach! ?

  183. Dimitra

    So brave of you Marie, to get up on that stage and share a piece of your soul. That line in the middle of the story “You are not going to make it” had me in tears within seconds. I felt your pain. Way to go for not giving up.

  184. Shari

    This really hit home for me. What really stood out for me was this idea that ‘no fate, no obstacle and no situation should stand in your way, and you can always move forward’. My job is primarily as a problem-solver, and sometimes I get some doozies! But even if it’s just baby steps, if I believe I can do it, then I will. Even if I say to myself ‘I don’t know how to figure this out’ what I should say is ‘I don’t know how to figure this out YET, but I WILL.’ If more people adopted that, along with the Oz Principle of ‘See It-Own It-Solve It-Do It’, how powerful would that be?!? 🙂

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Shari, yes! “Yet” is one of my favorite power words 🙂

  185. Thank you Marie and the team for posting this talk.
    I was so needing this mantra, it is funny how life puts things in your way even at the most absurd moments.
    I had seen your e-mail pop up, around the beginning of the afternoon, as I was going through a difficult moment I told myself I will check it out in the next few days.
    I, unconsciously, found myself rechecking my mails later on that afternoon and God just whispered: “Will you sit you ass down, girl, and watch Marie Forleo’s talk” 🙂
    Being an entrepreneurs is the toughest thing ever but the most rewarding one. We all are in this together and even if we are not in the same city, state, country with social media we can still be connected and motivate each other.
    So thank you Marie and your team for this constant, great, freaking and amazing vibe you send us!
    Regards,
    Olivia

  186. I’m figuring out – every day – how to slow down, stop getting caught up in other folks’ ideas of success/standards, and live my fairy tale as I see fit to write it. When my Talking Mirror throws me shade, I know it’s just reflecting my own insecurities back at me. When the ways of the world get me down, I can put the puss in boots and turn it all around. Any magic beans I might find at the intersection of what I want and what I need will be put to right use.

  187. Denene

    Before I watched this I said to myself , ” oh I learned everything is figureoutable from my Mom.” And it is a guiding principle of my life….until I get stuck really badly and find myself discouraged, floundering, and having a little pity party. So thank you for refreshing my belief that everything is figureoutable. This is really the underpinning of my resilience, a trait that I value second only to being kind. Thank you!!! Now I can get on with tackling my new venture.

  188. Girl…I had TEARS streaming down my face watching this. Thank you for sharing so beautifully, hilariously and awesomely. You rock sista! Love, XoxHeather Kristian

  189. That was one of the most dynamic speeches I have ever heard, Marie. I am in the midst of learning how unstoppable I am, and all of us are.

  190. Marie you are amazing. This had me crying and laughing all at the same time. No matter where we struggle – in our work or in our personal life – everything really is figureoutable. You taught me that 2 years ago and I took it to heart. Who we are matters on what we tell ourselves. Please keep shining your light, the world needs more of you. Thank you for being you!

  191. Nice! I felt like you were my family stepping out to that stage…to tell them all the things you tell us. You did great! Thanks for sharing something intimate in a powerful way. Am in a figuroutable time – can’t see how yet but and I am certain it will work out in an astonishing way

  192. *Wiping away tears* Loved the story. Loved the lesson. Am living right now with my new husband and totally am getting what you were saying about quality moments. Our biggest issue is we put a deposit down for a formal ceremony wedding and now might not be able to afford it let alone cancel and now owe 75% to the catering hall. He’s ready to quit his full-time job and get tested for possibly having aspergers which makes it hard for him to keep work and I am growing my own business and working part-time. We don’t know what the future holds but I told him no matter what happens we have each other and we will figure it out. We know the Black and White truth of the situation but I also know that it’s possible we can make the money we need to get by AND pay off this debt. Trying to keep a chin up and not get stressed. But I know in my heart we love and care for each other and we will figure it out. Thanks for the reminder Marie. Your the best.

  193. Lisa Caton

    This was awesome! Thank you so much. I was emotionally moved. I have been stuck and suffering with this one issue and now I am saying to myself…this is figueroutable. When this morning I was thinking the opposite…I dont think I can get through this. Now I exploring something different. Thank you!!

  194. Thank you Marie, for encouraging a personal to global outlook to problem solving and engagement. Congratulations!

  195. This talk brought tears to my eyes and spread a giant grin across my face. You’re an inspiration. Thanks for being you.

  196. Natalia Stefanova

    Superb talk, Marie!

  197. Marie,
    These moments from your life made you stop and think. When we are in those moments, reflecting on the real message with in our own powerful positive mode we can move things into a different direction. I relate to this, I don’t hear certain words that are negative, I choose to find a way. Everything is figureroutable.

    Right now… I’m actually in the process of the most amazing, incredible want to shout it from the roof top happening. My ah ha moment is happening! I really want to share this incredible untold true story that has guided my heart and journey for over 40 years. IT began with a moment that stopped me in my tracks and became my everything. I’ve never penned a story before but it’s figeroutable right?
    I process things in a way that you describe, I have from a little girl. I thought we all did, as I’m learning it’s not so…
    With all my heart, I believe and know first hand that our positive thoughts guide us. They’re real, every thing is figureoutable. When real life experiences are shared they become the tools that show us the way. Oprah is a master at sharing these things, and connecting us with speakers that inspire.
    I’m so excited you shared this today on your blog. I so wanted to come to La, tickets were sold out, but this was perfect way to start my day, a quiet home office with a latte.

    Thank you Marie, you continually inspiring us to look within.
    xo,
    Gail

  198. Barb

    Awesome message! You transcend generations and your message resonates with different generations. I have learned so much from you and you have given me such inspiration to grow and continue to learn for the second phase of my life after being a Special Education Teacher for many years!

  199. Claudia P

    Just what I needed to hear — great job 🙂

  200. Marie – I want to express infinity gratitude for who you are and what you do!
    This talk came at exactly the right time for me – when I was feeling doubt, fear, and an overwhelming sense of smallness and powerlessness.
    You have transformed not only my day but also my life!
    xx

  201. Your message always applies to some area of my life. Thank you for sharing your gifts as I continue developing mine! ?

  202. Marie – thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us and for making us realize that it can all be figured out. I cried along with you during your airport story. I especially loved how you were so overwhelmed and teary after your speech when you hugged Oprah. You FEEL life, and we get that. That is why we follow you and connect with you. So, thank you.

  203. Elena

    Marie, you’re incredible! I adore and admire everything you do. Thank you for inspiring me again and again.
    <3

  204. Marie,
    Thank you for your inimitable energy, your vulnerability and your clear, core message. I’ve been an MF Insider for a few years now and when I think of you, I *always* think of this message.
    I think the biggest thing I am called to transcend in this lifetime is shame, in all its chameleon-esque forms. Beyond shame, there is so much LIVING to do and so much LOVING to extend. I also often battle a belief that there’s too much noise, that we in today’s world are drowning in false connection that overwhelms rather than nourishes us. The question for me is how to contribute meaningfully to that rather than being part of the noise. And I know, I know in my bones, that what God wants me to do is just keep showing up as fully as I know how.

    Thanks Marie. I needed to voice that today.

  205. Liz

    Marie, you are so good at pulling people into a story. I really felt like I was sweating an overstuffed pinata on my way to catch a plane.
    I love that you say the mantra is a practical discipline, putting the responsibility firmly in each of our hands.

  206. Aisling

    Thank you, Marie for sharing your story! I’ve been following you for about a year now, and I have to say I *live* by your mantra that everything is figureoutable. There are so many times in my business that I freak out and question how I’m going to do this or that, or how I’m going to get everything done. Then I take a deep breath and realize I’m capable of doing anything as long as I put my mind to it, as long as I believe in myself and my business, I will figure out the how. With these thoughts in mind, I have overcome many obstacles in my business. Don’t get me wrong, I’m still learning and some days the struggle is real, but this mantra keeps me grounded and I can’t thank you enough for sharing your insight.

  207. Monique

    What I would do or change if indeed everything is figureoutable? Well let me start by saying that going through BSchool already taught me that it is as true as can be. Yesterday I had no clue about WordPress, today I’m at the point where it’s installed, I have a theme, pages and a plug in going on. This strengthens my believe that Yes I’m able teach people to rely on their intuition more, yes I can get companies to look for longterm goals and the welbeing of their employees much more and YES I can get men to trust their gut feelings and open up. The first exampled showed itself today. Amen:) Having said that Marie I loved your performance, you clearly practise what you preach (I saw the emotion, I heard the stories and I felt the energy)! A million thanks to you and your team

  208. Stephanie Summers-Culver

    Wow – with tears in my eyes, I write this. In less than a week, I will graduate my oldest Son from High School. A few days before that I will remember the tragic day that I said goodbye to my Mother at the young age of 60 from injuries sustained in a car accident. Listening to you today – I quickly realized our Mothers were very similar! My childhood memories might not be as significant as yours however I feel that the grief and pain coma I have been in since she left this earth 8 years ago is clouding my vision, or should I said crippling. I am so grateful that I took the time to listen to this today. I have a short Summer to make this type of remarkable impact on my first born before he travels off to College in Chicago come Fall. This grief and loss should not define us but rather the perseverance our loved ones have laid upon our hearts. This week of celebrations, tears, lasts & firsts will be…figureoutable! Thank YOU from my whole heart!

  209. Dearest Marie,
    Thank you for sharing such a powerful story. You are delightful! I have just completed B-School and it has rocked my world. Thank you for creating such an incredible training program. I am on page 2 of my 4 page list of implementation items! 🙂 So close to re-launching my biz!

    My answer to your question is this:
    I would see to fruition the grandiosity of my concept for a training/coaching program for women that helps them identify their truth, speak that truth and then stand fully in their power. As far as I am aware this holistic approach is not currently available. I believe that women who embody their truth live happy healthy lives. I believe that happy and healthy women aligned in mind.body.spirit raise happy healthy children. These women and their children will continue the revolution of higher consciousness and change the world. I want to create a tipping point.

    Big love to you and your team,
    xxoo
    L

  210. I recently received the nicest compliment from my 18 year old son. He too has a mother who believes everything is figureoutable. And now, he’s able to see how it shaped his life, even when divorce and unemployment could made things pretty scary for him. If you live your life this way, the shadow you cast is one of possibility, and you never know who will be touched by that shadow.

    Thank you Marie!

  211. Marie you are truly an inspiration. I cried. I took a leap into a new career & I have been making the excuse I just don’t know what to do. Thanks for the release. Thank you also for sharing your story about your mom and the struggle in your relationship. I used Leading People to Fish as part of my signature. I am adding Everything is figureoutable, Marie Forleo

    Love and appreciate you

  212. Oh my goodness, Marie.

    I was just having an off morning, and this was the kick in the pants that I needed. I can’t believe you had the guts to share that story of your “failing” relationship, that’s always a hard thing to admit.

    In the last two years, I have moved 5 times. Five-fricken-times. Each time I moved, I had a new sense of hope and adventure, so excited for a new start, a new beginning. Each time, my husband and I were moving forward with our careers and trying to find out where we belong.

    But, this last time, it broke me. I wasn’t ready to move. I didn’t want to move. I was finally exactly where I wanted to be for my career and my business. There wasn’t a cell in my body that wanted to leave where I was already at. And therefore, I didn’t see the new beginning or the hope that I had in previous moves. Somethings just snapped. Every move, I would have to re-build a community, meet new people, stretch myself beyond what I thought was possible. But, this time… I didn’t feel like I had anything left. I had already given away everything I had to offer. All of that led to depression, doubt, anxiety, procrastination, and an overwhelming sense of “This is impossible. I can’t do this.”

    My husband is going back to school, and not only do I need to “re-start” in my new location, I am getting a full-time job to help support us. So, I’ll have less time to work on my business and get it off the ground. And, let’s be real, it kind of sucks.

    But even so, everyday things start to get a little easier, I try to see the silver-lining in going back to work, and I know (even though it’s hard) that I can figure this out. I can do this.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Alecia, oh my gosh … moving once in two years is more than enough work, let alone five times. I’m so sorry to hear that the last move was particularly rough for you, and it sounds like exploring the silver lining a bit each day is starting to move things in the right direction.

      I hope that everything Marie shared here can help serve as little points of inspiration, and know that we absolutely believe in you and you have our little team in your corner cheering you on!

  213. Girl, you’ve truly become a transformational speaker. I once saw Lisa Nichols lecture about the difference between a speaker, motivational speaker, inspirational speaker and TRANSFORMATIONAL speaker. The latter is able to take us with her on the journey. We feel as if it’s happened to us and internalize the message. We don’t just take action then. We carry the message with us and it changes our lives forever. That was this talk. You go girl.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Oh wow, what a lovely thing to say, Dawn! Thank you so much for your kind words, and we’re so glad you enjoyed Marie’s talk <3

  214. I MISS Marie TV…
    Marie TV is something like “Dragons Den” you can watch it for 10 years and never get bored.

  215. I’ve been having a hard time pursuing my entrepreneurial dreams which I think stems from the fact that I don’t have any entrepreneurs in my family. There are so many missing pieces and I found myself feeling really disheartened. This is what I needed to hear to put me back on track. Everything is figureoutable and by God I’m going to figure this out and create my success because this is about way more than just me. When I am able to be a lifestyle entrepreneur I will essentially be breaking a generational curse and opening the door for those after me. I have to make it because those who I came to serve need me and they deserve the best of me.

  216. Loved it! and I so needed it today… I wrote it down on my journal so I can remember to live through it everyday, and I’ll be unstoppable 🙂

  217. Melanie

    WWMD? (what would Marie do?)
    Figure it out (of course), rock the stage and connect straight to the hearts of all super soulers.
    Your talk was sensational. I freakin’ love the pieces out of “that special something that only YOU have”! So happy that you and Josh are ‘are making it’ and making it good ;)!

  218. Fantastic! You did a wonderful job. I loved your story and the way you told it. You were in it to win it. So excited for you to be on this world stage! Go Marie Go!

    xoxo LL

    Bschool grad and total fan

  219. Outstanding!! Imagine what we collectively could accomplish if we REALLY believed that everything is figureoutable! SO INSPIRING!!

  220. Hey Marie, I love your stage presence and story telling. I was fortunate to be at the last RHH Live in 2012 where I heard you tell the story about your mom for the first time. I love how you applied it to your relationship with Josh. To answer your question I’ve been doing a lot of things I never thought I would or could do over the past year or so such as completing my first obstacle course race (4 miles up and down ski hills while maneuvering over, under & thru 37 obstacles) . I did this just a few weeks before turning 35, (for the 16th time:) I also visited the Middle East by myself to visit friends in the military and was there during the Paris and Beruit attacks. While I was a little scared traveling home, I had a strong trust/faith that I would be fine and I was. Over the last few months I started run/walking charity 5k’s and am in the process of training for my first triathlon sprint. I have a huge fear of riding my bike alongside traffic, but I know I’ll figure it out. In my business I help a lot of people feel good on a physical and emotional level and I’m in the process of figuring out how I can make an even bigger impact by transitioning from mostly bodywork to predominantly EFT coaching. I recently received my advanced level practitioner certification and now I’m gonna take the time to go thru B-School 2016. I know I’ll figure it out.
    A big thank you to you and your team for all you do. You truly are helping to change the world in the most beautiful way.
    Much love & hugs,
    Dawn

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      It sounds like you’re doing some truly amazing things, Dawn! We’re cheering you on all the way, and hope you have a wonderful time training for your first sprint triathlon 🙂

  221. Grace

    Thank you so much for sharing this message Marie. Since giving up my full-time job as a Naturopathic doctor and becoming a full-time Mom, I feel like I have lost my truth and identity. It was my choice to give fully of myself both physically and emotionally to my child and husband. It has been my purpose to serve these two truly amazing individuals for the past four years but my body and soul are asking for me to return home, to my true self. I am exhausted and don’t have the excitement and passion I used to have for life. The last 10 months has thrown me been one difficult challenge after another: moving to another state, breaking my ring finger getting pneumonia, having my dad stay with us after his second divorce, and finally (the biggest blow to my ego) losing massive amounts of hair. Each time I now see that these challenges was the universe trying to get my attention. I am now in the process of “figuring” out how to stop this hair loss, but more importantly how to come home to myself. Listening to your Oprah talk has sparked my hope that I will feel fulfilled again… with a full head of gorgeous hair ?

  222. You Rock, Marie!

  223. Georgia Balmir

    Hi,

    Everyday is an opportunity for me to progress and move forward. I see this as a pivotal moment in my life where I have been able to turn a negative situation into a favorable one that served me in the end. I’ve had several experiences in my life where someone told me something wasn’t possible and after reviewing and processing the situation, I was able to accomplish what I had intended. My significant other has told me “No” on several occasions that he couldn’t help me out financially and God turned up at the precise moment and made it happen for me because I found a way to help myself in the process. This all goes to show that everything is figureoutable. When one door closes, another one opens because for me I have changed my perspective and how I view myself and the way I see the world. I can turn a negative into a positive and even have my adversary become my teacher. It is in those moments of difficulties and adversity that I am able to look within and take another look at myself and change the way I think simply by forgiving the other person and myself. I have found inner peace, happiness and solace. I am ready to face the world and be prepared for whatever life challenges I must face without fear because there is a light in me a fire that burns to be seen and it will not be denied. I can heal broken relationships and see the lesson behind the problem and become a guide for others and truly serve. So yes, everything is figureoutable.

    Love,
    Georgia

  224. Bridget Morris

    the pedestal I have you on just got higher. wow! just wow! Mom Forleo raised an extraordinary woman and we are all so lucky that you are sharing the wisdom you learned from her. <3

  225. Look for love and then marry her I am 26 years old

  226. I love you Marie! What an encouragement this talk had been for me, I’m glad I didn’t see it any earlier than today because today I’m ready to believe it.
    I’m currently working on improving my internal narrative so this is a timely message for me.
    If I believe everything is figure-out-able (by the way, tell your mom I said thanks for that wisdom. It’s sweet how you honor her when you share it with others): I’d be a successful medical and children’s product designer, creating tangible products that help and inspire others.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much, Laquesha! Timing is so important — I love when the universe sends us the right messages at just the right time 🙂

  227. Shannon

    Solving the collective housing challenge of owning a home debt free for single moms and single dads. Create a “Simple Living” design community for these familes. Create a 2 year residential housing solution for human traffickers by women and there children to prepare them for purposeful work, living out their passion. Own that bone level Identity, and show my son that everything is figureoutable.

  228. Tropicana OJ!! Thanks for the blast back to my childhood! We had one of those radios too – and a beach towel, and a watch that lasted FOREVER (my mom might still have it somewhere). I am a chronic figure-outer who loves learning but also can get impatient with not seeing results soon enough. I am right there with A. Bob in needing to work on dialing back the urgency and pressure. That said, much of the time, I’m working on the next step of what lights me up and am not super-clear on what my final destination is going to look like. I am still figuring it out. 😉

  229. Thank you Marie! You spoke to me today, I made the decision to take a position in a completely different career than what I have now. I was feeling quite anxious about whether I was making the right decision or not, after listening to your session I am sure this is what I want to become. Thank you for thoughts.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Beautiful, Gisset! Congratulations on getting started on your exciting new career!

  230. Tara

    I so needed to hear this today. Thank you, thank you, thank you!! ❤️❤️❤️

  231. Michelle Seabrooks

    For the last 3-4 years (after a lot of life changing work on myself) my mantra to everyone has been “there is more than one way to do anything” which I believe equals Marie’s “Everything is Figureoutable”. My son who is 18 and has autism is the perfect example of someone who only sees one way or no way out of a situation. Through my constant reiteration over the years of there being more than one way to do anything and stressing that if plan A doesn’t work out we can always institute plan B or C, we now always discuss alternative ways to get what we want or need and he’s even coming up with his own plan A and B. Your talk just reiterated for me that we choose the roles we play in our lives… “that of a victim, or that of a victor”. I choose to be a victor! Thank you Marie!

  232. God bless you, Marie. So many of us waste so many opportunities due to hesitation, to self doubt. You cleared all doubts now.

    What i would do is i would find a way to broadcast hope and inspiration to those who need it. I’m on the way there. It’s been my lifetime calling and my dearest dream.

  233. Amazing job – I had tears in my eyes by the end of your airport story. Lord knows, you’ve got to keep on trying when you feel like all your other options have failed. Yay! True inspiration and extremely motivated. xoxo – JMV

  234. Hello Marie!
    Just watched the video – especially at a very crucial moment when there is actually something I am trying to figure out! But I am not one who will give up that easily – the clock is ticking and there are EXACTLY 23.5 hours to make it… Tomorrow you will receive a message from me that finally it was figureoutable!!!
    Waiting to share that thrilling moment with you!
    Loads of love,
    Uma

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      That’s so awesome, Uma! We look forward to hear about your thrilling moment — you got this! 🙂

  235. Nui

    Thanks Marie for sharing your stories. I’m glad I listened to it.

    I truly believe everything is figureoutable. However, living in this modern busy life, we just keep going and going and going. I end up with a super long to do list, unfinished tasks and being overwhelmed with frustration. I’ve figured that I should slow down, stop, think and try to figure out how to get out of this mess, so I could become the person I wanna be.

  236. Yessss, so well done.
    I’m showing this to my15 yr old daughter.

  237. Monica

    Love this! Sitting at my desk with goosebumps and chills. Marie, you once again touched my soul.

    In answer to your question, I would be a healer, someone who helped people heal at the soul level, help them find their self and remember why they are here. I believe if more of us were able to really be in touch with our true self, it would heal the world.

  238. What an honor to be on that stage! What makes a talk great in my opinion, is sharing the human stories; because I believe that which comes from the heart, reaches the heart. Well done Marie, and now I have to figure out how to get on that stage, and share, empower, and inspire. Any ideas :). Thanks for sharing!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much, Danielle! In terms of how to get on that stage (or any stage!), it’s all about honoring your voice, your authenticity, and then simply hustling and getting your work out there as often as possible.

      We have some amazing MarieTV episodes that talk about all kinds of ways to share your gifts with the world, so feel free to explore our collection for lots of great tips and ideas! http://www.marieforleo.com/category/use-your-voice-share-your-gifts/

  239. What a wonderful talk, Marie!! I loved it. Yes, I agree! I will pass that to my son, too! Amazing your airport story and adorable all the memories of your mom “doing it all”!
    Sending love and gratitude to you,
    Claudine

  240. Dennis

    Amazing speech Marie, you had the crowd up on their feet and they loved you. I wish you and Josh the best. Congratulations. Dennis.

  241. Cynthia Cassady

    Thanks Marie you are an awesome bundle of love, inspiration and empowerment!!! I love your statement of truth=everything is figureoutable❤️ I believe that we will figure out a way to make our mlm biz succeed, and I believe we will be able to figure out how to buy the house we just looked at yesterday….. I believe we will get to relax on a beach? Much love to you and God bless.

  242. What an absolutely brilliant and inspiring talk!
    Thank you so much for sharing.
    ‘Everything is Figureoutable’ is something we need to remember when things in business and life get too much sometimes.

  243. Marie you are simply AMAZING! I love you and I love what you stand for. Such strength and grace all rolled up in one. We are all so blessed to have such an empowering role model for women. You have made a difference in my life and for that I thank you from the bottom of my heart. ♥

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Julie, that means so much to hear! We so appreciate your lovely note, and we’re sending tons of Team Forleo love <3 <3

  244. Sheryl Anderson

    Fabulous Marie !!! Captivating and inspiring message. Thank you for being so authentic and sharing your personal story.

  245. Great presentation, very real. I think it resonated with all who watched and listened. It even brought a tear to my eye at one point, yours too I noticed. What I saw in the faces of the audience and in myself was the thought, what do I see in my life that is to be figureoutable?
    As a massive procrastinator, I have been to lazy to get of my butt and figure anything out, but know knowing that whatever it is (in my case the procrastinating), it shall be figured out.
    Thank you.

  246. Eva

    Ever since joining B-School I embraced your mom’s (and now your) “everything is figuroutable” lesson.
    So much has happened since and I feel like I’ve come so far… yet I know things are just getting started. And no matter how many challenges we face, we will be OK and will even gain wisdom from every single event.
    Your talk brought tears to my eyes. Because I know what you’re saying is absolutely true.
    Thank you so much for your work.
    And keep taking time off to recharge the soul 🙂 We all need that to keep going.

  247. Miriam Mishkin

    Marie, you ROCK! I have always believed “Everything is Figureoutable” and will add it to my list of mantras that have served me well over the years. Such as: “It is what it is. (We can’t control everything)”, “What’s the lesson I’m supposed to learn from this?”, “This situation is what I make of it.” “I won’t let negative instances define me or how I view or “show up” in my world.” (Viktor Frankle), “What do I need and who can help me get to the next step?” (I am usually generous in helping others and I have a nice network of friends and acquaintances).

    As an intuitive person, surrounded by fact-based, rational folks most of my life, I was asked, but often could not answer WHY I thought/believed/acted a certain way. Life was not always easy and my esteem was put to the test (but that is for another time). I thought I had to justify the whys so I began to work HARD to define how/why I made decisions, etc. I rose in my career because I had built compensating skills, (balanced facts and intuition) but at a BIG time and energy cost. I was not playing to my strengths. (Thanks Marcus Buckingham for helping me see that I was enough, just as I was.)

    Now, I know better and honor my internal voice (intuition) that gathers input from many factors and observations. My husband and I gave up our careers to start our own business and after 1.5 years we are starting to see the benefits of all our labor (time, money, energy, sleepless nights, etc). We did a lot of due diligence before beginning this venture, and went in with our eyes open. We did NOT have all the answers, but we had faith that EVERYTHING is FIGUREOUTABLE and we took the plunge knowing that by leveraging our experiences, and with our tenacity, things will fall into place.

    Your question – what <> would I do/create… if I believed it’s all figureoutable? I aim to make a difference in all the small ways I can influence my world (in hopes to find the BIG ways):
    a) I teach my kids to trust their inner-voice and play to their strengths (recognize where they might need to enhance their skills but not at all costs – only enough to get by and collaborate with others who have complementary skills), to help others see what they are capable of (and in tern, it helps them see what they themselves are good at),
    b) I support my employees by hiring positive, collaborative, thoughtful people (No A-hole Rule), and asking them what activities strengthen them (to what do they have an affinity?) so that they are working with their strengths and not wasting energy on things someone else (with complementary skills) could be doing.
    c) I would stand on the roof tops, teach youth groups, write a book and tell everyone to “Trust your inner voice more!” Don’t listen to nay-sayers. [Great quote – “Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world; indeed, it’s the only thing that ever has.” – Margaret Mead]

    THANK YOU for spreading positive messages in BIG ways. From one of your BIGGEST fans. (Loved hearing your Mom’s name is Miriam!)
    All my best,
    Miriam Mishkin

  248. Just like your mom taught you, my mom taught me…in slightly different words…that everything works out in the end. It’s the main reason I haven’t given up my dreams at age 53. I keep growing and learning because to do anything else is boring. I want to live life until there is nothing left for me to do. And no matter what comes at me, I feel empowered to conquer it.

    Great talk Marie!

  249. Olesya

    Maria, it was amazing! I’m from Russia, and my english is not so good, I do not understand some individual words, but I understood everything !!! It was very sincere and inspiring! Thank you!

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much, Olesya! We’re so glad you enjoyed it 🙂

  250. Yes!! Mama Forleo is Carrying the way!

  251. Mia

    Thank you for this, Marie! You are such an inspiration – as always! I am tuning in from Sweden and am about to start my own online business soon. There is so much to research, prepare and….well…to figure out. So this is definitely the right time to start with the mantra that everything is figureoutable. Thank you again! ?

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Congrats on starting your business, Mia! I’m really glad you found Marie’s talk right as you’re starting because, like you said, there’s a lot to figure out. I think you’ll also like Marie’s business advice—we’ve grouped all those MarieTV episodes together for easy reference. 🙂 http://www.marieforleo.com/category/build-a-meaningful-business/

  252. Your work provides such a buoyancy to myself and I suspect so many more!! A heart felt thanks for all you do!!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank YOU for watching, Mary! I also love buoyancy as a description. I hadn’t thought about it like that before, but that does describe how I feel too. 🙂

  253. Your story of balancing work and home resonated with me deeply [and the timing was crazy surreal]. I’m struggling to find the right balance and getting lost in the work I love. It’s time to step back and evaluate my priorities for the balanced life I aim for.
    And figure it out.
    Thank you, Marie.
    You are the cherry on my business pursuit sundae.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much, Karen! I’m really glad Marie’s message was timely. It’s definitely hard trying to find the right work/life balance. Marie also has this episode of MarieTV about work/life balance that you might like: http://www.marieforleo.com/2014/11/work-life-balance/

  254. I love this so much, Marie! I see myself in you when you tell the story of making the flight to Barcelona. I have the same mindset that everything is possible, or as you say, everything is figureoutable!! Traveling internationally on a regular basis, I’ve been in several situations similar to this: almost missing the flight from Milan to Paris, almost missing the flight from Rome to Mozambique. Instead of giving up, I find a way to make it work.
    When the village where I lived in Mozambique flooded and the Peace Corps said I couldn’t go back, I knew that there must be a way to continue serving my community without leaving them. I talked with friends in nearby villages to see if I could stay with teachers, nurses, or their friends. I convinced Peace Corps to visit the nearby villages to see if I could stay there and continue commuting to my village to work at the hospital. I knew that I couldn’t go home– that my work wasn’t done. After much back and forth, Peace Corps finally agreed to let me live with a friend in a neighboring village– one without electricity or running water, with no market or public transportation. I stayed there and was able to continue working at the hospital and serving my community. I even extended for a third year, developed amazing friendships with the people in this new site, and now run an organization dedicated to empowering women Mozambique through education and entrepreneurship! Everything is figureoutable! Determination, optimism, and not taking no for an answer has helped me a lot in life! Thanks so much, Marie, for being an inspiration to us all!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s AWESOME, Elisabetta! You’ve got figureoutable all figured out. Seriously, it sounds like you’re doing amazing work and I’m really glad you’re staying true to the community you love in spite of the challenges that come up. You’re doing beautiful work in the world and we’re really proud of you.

  255. Oh my God, Marie, your speech had me well up with compassion, relief, and total adoration for you, Josh, and your story. I had expected to find you at the Super Soul Sunday round table. I was STUNNED to see you step in front of such a big noble audience. Standing ovations (great audience, too)!

    It was like watching a movie. I didn’t want you to stop! I could SO feel you, your power, your emotional whirlwind, your energetic movement moved me, then that running climax at the end. WOW. What a performance. I wanted to come through the screen and help you carry that heavy load. I literally FORGOT that this was a speech. The camera went right with it, too. And you looked gorgeous, gifted lady!

    1,000 “I love you”‘s could not have said “I love you” like your figureoutable-inspired action – and speech – did. You made magic happen for your man, your relationship, and millions of viewers, and it will continue to increase for generations to come as your video will travel the inter(dimensional)net through spacetime. Powerful!

    Not many other women would have done what you did, and Josh must have seen and felt that as well. Oprah was as smitten and captured by your speech as I was, I could feel it even more than see it. You impressed as a speaker, and we need to SEE YOU MUCH MORE in that capacity, please. That video should be in every school, university, and other place around the world. I mean it.

    Told you, Ellen DeGeneres will want you on her show soon. And might we see her in one of your interviews soon?

    Thank you for Marienading the world,
    Hugs,
    Tanya

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Oh my gosh, Tanya, THANK YOU for this sweet and heartfelt message! It’s so awesome that Marie’s message really resonated with you and spoke to your heart. We’re super grateful. <3

      (Funny story, I recently mentioned that Ellen DeGeneres was on my list of "dream guests" for MarieTV. I'd love to see her on the show too! 🙂 )

  256. My life, and my life style require ‘figureoutable’ mindset! Thanks for reminding us…
    We’re gonna make it!
    Rocked it Marie!!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      You got this, Laura! 🙂

  257. Brenda

    You truly lived that moment with passion, Marie. I have heard your story of the Tropicana Orange Juice radio, but not with the conviction you had on that stage. And your airport story? Well – the frantic mess that led up to you getting on that plane seemed to give you all the couple’s therapy you needed . If that moment in time didn’t prove your love and compassion for each other, I don’t believe anything could.

    What would I do? Through my creative writing, I hope to create a more soul-filled, passionate world. I provide the ability to create and ensure a memorable impact for both entrepreneurs and individual customers. For entrepreneurs who want to convert website visitors to customers, I help provide the message they want to convey. For individuals wanting to remember the past, enjoy the present or plan their future, my personalized products and services help them to do so. (website forth-coming)

    Thanks so much for sharing your heart with the world!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s really cool to hear! I’m so glad Marie’s story hit home in a new way in this talk. 🙂

      We’re cheering you on with your creative writing, especially knowing your mission is to create a more soul-filled world! There can never be enough soul and passion in the world. Thank you for sharing your gifts.

  258. Just a wonderful address, Marie. You have been blessed with —and have developed —such a positive and sensitive inner voice.
    I can’t thank you enough for sharing…
    It was incredibly motivating for me: I WILL muster up the drive and confidence to finish the novel I have been trying to write for the past two and a half years.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Wow! Writing a novel is a huge undertaking, but you CAN do it. We believe in you!

  259. Marie my darling you’re amazing! I love it! Iwas there with you at JFK and then with your mom your storytelling was perfect and as EVERY single video I’ve seen from you a life lesson. You’re blessed and the most important you know how to honor it. Lot of love. Maria

  260. When I can figure it all out, as big a dream as it can be: every woman is an artist, and every little girl is seen in her true talent and presence; she feels safe, respected and considered, as a human being. She is capable and unstoppable. She feels beauty and produces it. There is no “system”. There are only human beings building colorful cities.

  261. Thank you Marie–I love how you really really went for it!
    I would become an international educational advisor to show educators and students how to transcend fight or flight in the classroom using tools I learned to do the same. We are so much more than our neo-cortex: we are our physical, emotional and spiritual selves too. It’s time to connect and use all of these in the classroom to develop into the uniquely talented beings we all are. The new education would incorporate the heart, the body, the senses and the brain.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That is so, so wonderful, Therese! There can never be enough heart-centered people in the world and started early in school is such a beautiful way to encourage that. 🙂

  262. Marie, this was amazing! It touched my heart. My husband and I are at that 7-year mark and your story has inspired me to give ourselves more time off. Yes, yes, we must always believe in possibility.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Yay! That’s so great to hear! I hope you create even more beautiful memories together on upcoming vacations. 🙂

  263. That was completely awesome, Marie. Thank you!

  264. It’s such a funny story, but it made me well up with tears! Thank you, Marie! You are an amazing and inspiring women and I’m so thankful for you figuring it out.
    Every little thing you’ve ever figured out on your journey has a ripple effect of success.
    I’m deeply grateful for you (and your mom!).
    In joy,
    Sarah

  265. so very inspirational, Marie, you made me cry at first then laugh with your airport story… OMG! One phrase that stuck to my mind is that “… everything you do is shaped by what you believe” – your dear mother was such an inspiration, she must be so proud of you! Well done, you shone like a star on that stage xx

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much for your kindness, Cecile! We’ll be thinking of you and sending positive energy your way. Marie’s words are true—everything you do is shaped by what you believe. 🙂

  266. Sarah

    LOVE LOVE LOVE this, you are so captivating and I have always (ok not always but mostly always – you know, we all have THOSE days) believed that everything is figureoutable, I can do anything I put my mind to. I have had a health issue for a few years now and all specialists I have seen have given me vague and not so helpful answers but I know that I am going to figure this out and when I do I will let them know what the situation is so they can help others with the same issue. I never quit and I always finish what I start, we are all capable and I love the simplicity of everything is figureoutable, small miracles happen every day and we can all make it happen. xo

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      You have such an amazing, resilient spirit, Sarah! I really hope your doctors figure out what’s causing your health issue so you can get the treatment you need to heal. I hope your “everything is figureoutable” attitude will rub off on them! In the meantime we’ll be thinking of you and sending healing wishes your way.

  267. I’m in tears. I love this so much. No matter what it is, it is figure-out-able! Thanks Marie!

  268. nadine

    bravo marie! i have watched you for years but have never commented on anything. but as soon as i heard your great talk i thought of a real example. at 23 i was dg. with ms, have been on ssdi for years, at 35 was in a nursing home, etc. then my partner figured it out! the best hospitals had given up on me but she did not. i was treated off study with hsct (chemo, my own stem cells) at northwestern. not to give false hope but i went from a wheelchair to walking. i know i can’t share my short story here but if c. had not exhausted every option possible i would still be in a nursing home. so YES (almost) everything IS figure out-able 😉

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      I’m so, SO glad you kept your “everything is figureoutable” spirit and that you’re out of the nursing home and able to walk again! And I’m really happy you had your sweet partner by your side during such a tough time. There’s such power in believing things are figureoutable.

  269. Sooo Inspiring! It all changes. The world just opened up for me, my husband, and my children ?? Thank you Marie for reminding us that “everything is figureoutable”

  270. A very powerful and confident presentation . You are a woman of stature. You can inspire people with your leadership.My comment is philosophical. Something I have learnt from Ayn Rand. She explains that you cannot change the nature of metaphysical facts. Here she means the sun, the moon, stars ,moutains rain . All things we call nature. For example you can not ask rain to stop raining. However, there are man -made facts which should not be accepted blindly and when neccessary they should be challanged. Most of them are not perfect .There are errors. Your mother is right when she says everything is figureoutable. I am sure she meant man-made facts. Most people do not know this and easily give up even when they can do something

  271. Rosaline

    Beautiful talk, Marie! Well done! Very engaging and inspiring!

    In response to your questions: I would become confident in the idea that I will be a steward of great resources. I would have greater intuition on how to use the time that has been given to me. I would have deeper trust that my actions reflect the core of who I am. I would have deeper trust that my actions matter to me, my loved ones and others. I would connect with the people that it would be a joy to serve and the people who deeply need and value my services.

  272. Hi Marie, this is such a great talk and your wonderful personality really shines through. Since adopting your everything is figureoutable mantra I have learned so many new skills (which I now provide as services to my clients!) that previously I would have thought were totally beyond me and extremely technical! It’s all quite straightforward once you apply yourself to figuring it out.
    There is another saying that you can’t be more unless you know more and this is why you have to be determined to figure things out because then you can no more and then you can BE more!
    Thank you for all your inspiration!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      It’s so cool that you’ve adopted the “everything is figureoutable” mantra and have learned so many new things! I know your clients are really grateful for your wisdom too. I really like the “know more, be more” mantra too. So good!

  273. You truly are AMAZING Marie! Love your story – it is authentic and so relate able. My Dad always taught me to work through challenges and that life will always present us with challenges to help us grow. Anything in life is “figureoutable” There will always be a way….we just need the patience and belief in ourselves. Thank you Marie!!!

  274. Hey Marie! I just want to say thank you <3 your words have helped me so much over the years, you have no idea! You put in words things I've always think about. Keep it up! Love and all the best for you (and Josh) I'm so glad you made it! ^_^

  275. Claudia

    chapeau – great talk!
    everything is figureoutable is my mantra for decades, and it´s working for me, never mind it´s not the easiest track. but it kept me moving as a working student, made me survive my internship, helped me trough incredibly dangerous situations in Africa and so on…

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      I think you really hit the nail on the head, Claudia. Figuring things out isn’t always easy, but having the “figureoutable” attitude makes a big difference in how we approach things. I’m really glad you survived your internship and the dangerous situations you were in!

  276. Laura Gonzalez

    Thank you Marie, you are amazing, unstoppable, gracious, fun and talented. I love to watch you and I strongly recommend my students, neighbors and friends to follow you.

  277. I’m so glad I watched this. Perfect timing 😉 You are such an inspiration Marie. I’ve been following you online for about 5 years now, have done B-School numerous times, I even got my Dad to sign up to your emails (and he told me he thinks you’re crazy – haha, I told him that’s why I follow you!) I had goosebumps and tears throughout your talk. I know exactly what I need to do to get my ass into gear at the moment, it’s just like I keep waiting for someone to give me the permission slip to do it, and here it is! Thank you for being you and owning that stage with so much grace and power. Deep bow and all love to you!

  278. PS – awesome outfit! 😉

  279. Roxanne

    Hi Marie…I am a business woman a true work horse…love my work…but soon this world that I have known will be coming to an end…my 20 year run with my business will end because we are selling it….I’m not sure what the future will bring but I’m on this whole spiritual path…been loving all the big gurus for years…I studied fashion; I’m a Naturopath and I am very good at a lot of things…but I have no idea what to do next….I would love some advice. I feel lost and I absolutely love your hilarious f+++++ personality! you Rock! I know we’d be best buds if we ever met…anyway; I would love to hear some words of wisdom from you, so if you have any…please send ’em my way babe! …Btw; you were insane…what a fab talk you did. You and Oprah. Rock stars!!!!! I’ve loved Oprah all my life…met her about 3 times! awesome chicks. thanks for all the encouragement.

  280. Outstanding Marie!! Brought tears to my eyes and reignited the fire in my soul. Thank you. You should be so proud.

  281. Lovely talk Marie, thanks for your words and wisdom. I loved hearing your mom’s story. My dad grew up in Newark too. He was such a happy person because he never forgot how much he had to be grateful for.
    The answer to your question would be that I would continue to create events where individuals can hear and share their storie and their truth with love and humor.

    It is all figure-out-able <3

  282. Everything is figureoutable!! Love your mom too. 🙂 What a great story about your airport journey. I’m going to finally complete my book, Sex, Love and Food and it’s going to be a NY Times best seller and a movie!

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Woohoo! We’re cheering you on! 🙂

  283. Jennifer

    Awesome Marie! So brave, and inspiring!! Thanks for sharing the vulnerable story of you and Josh. I can really relate, and needed the reminder that everything IS figure-outable. Much love to you, and gratitude. namaste, Jennifer

  284. Sue Kaiser

    Two years ago my health started to decline. I was in pain almost everywhere, I was so tired I couldn’t get enough sleep and I was weak as a mouse.
    All my lab work came back fine and I went and saw every Dr in the area to see what could be wrong. Everyone said they weren’t sure, or it was Fibromyalgia.
    I went from Dr to Chiropractor to physical therapist and took every supplement that was recommended and even did acupuncture; none of which helped. At this time, I was on about 13 pills a day and an pain patch.
    On day about a month ago, while laying in my usual spot on the couch, I thought, this is it, this is what the rest of my life will be like and I began to cry. Then a little voice inside said, “NO WAY, I am only 54 years old, I will be damned if I am going to live like this!! I am getting healthy some way, some how!! I started doing some stretching, light walking, and working on changing my diet. I found a great physical therapist that works with people who have been in pain for years. I am still in pain, but not using the pain patch anymore and I have stopped taking 4 other drugs. At first I couldn’t make it a day without a nap but now I can go without on most days. I truly believe this is figureoutable!!
    I firmly believe this mind shift was necessary to get me working at it again.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      I’m so glad you’re doing so much better, Sue! That’s definitely something to be proud of. Cheers to your improving health and your “figureoutable” outlook. 🙂

  285. Powerful! Great storytelling and meaningful and impactful message. My answer is to really step up and share my story as a source of inspiration for others and not let my story be something that defeats me. From being homeless, battling addiction, just to name a few, I have made it my mission to come back strong and empower others – because if I can, anyone can. Thanks so much for your leadership and your courage. Many blessings.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      Wow! It sounds like you’ve been on an incredible journey. We can’t wait to see you share your story on an even wider scale.

  286. Dear Marie,
    Thanks bunches for sharing this video with us – I wasn’t able to attend the event and very much wanted to …As always, your story and insight was so inspiring! Your Mom especially must be very proud of you for taking her mantra to heart. Congrats on figuring out that potentially huge problem and for salvaging your relationship with Josh. Thanks again for being such a bright light in the world and encouraging us to live our best lives.
    Much respect and gratitude,
    Ceil

  287. Pam

    So true — you’re a gifted storyteller and person. Glad you found your calling so others can learn from you. I certainly have.

  288. Michelle Marino

    I think you have to be doing what you truly love and are meant to do to believe that “everything is figure-out-able”. I’ve been trying to make that work for the last 3 years and it just wasn’t going to happen. I finally decided to quit my (regular paying) job and go back to my love-design. Now I feel like everything is figure-out-able! I wish I would have known this mantra 3 years ago. I would have never left my business, I would have just tried to make it a better business. So this is where I am……go big or go home.

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      I’m so glad you’re back to doing what you love! That’s so important, and I’m glad the “figureoutable” outlook followed you as you transitioned back to design. It really does make all the difference. 🙂

  289. Beautifully said, Marie! Really touched a chord with me. I am in full alignment and am reminded of our divine essence (in each of us) that is able to have us do things that we could never imagine. I am a big dreamer, believer in myself and others and loved the reminder that everything is figureoutable! Way to go – you are a powerhouse! Love your style, your authenticity and so adore you! Thank you!
    With gratitude and the umph to get the heck out there, full throttle,
    Julie Reisler
    P.S. My big hairy audacious dream is to also someday share on Super Soul Sunday…thank you for the inspiration! You rocked’ it! 😉

    • Mandy - Team Forleo

      That’s so cool, Julie! Being on Oprah was Marie’s audacious dream early in her career, so it can work! 🙂

  290. April

    Marie that was an outstanding Oscar award-winning sincere performance with great storytelling and great speaking expertise. You really are a pro! Such a sweetheart with a great heart full of compassion for Marie that was an outstanding Oscar award-winning sincere performance with great storytelling and great speaking expertise. You really are a pro! Such a sweetheart with a great heart full of compassion for others. unfortunately I don’t agree that everything is figure out able. Especially if you have depression or bipolar. It’s hard enough just to get by. And it’s too much to aspire to figure everything out or to think that you’re capable of picking figuring everything out. But for the Nero typical people out there… Yes I believe it is possible and should be something everyone should aspire to! However if they have depression, it ain’t going to work.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you for sharing your kind words and thoughts with us, April. Having known several people very close to me who have suffered from depression and other mental illnesses, I absolutely hear where you’re coming from.

      Sometimes a more immediate issue like an illness can take priority over focusing on other dreams — sometimes for a long time — but having personally seen many people rise out of serious mental illness and go on to do amazing things they’d never dreamed of when they were in dark times, it’s absolutely something that I believe is figureoutable too!

  291. Marguerite Hart

    Marie I loved the talk and your mom sounds like a gal I would love to have as a friend!

  292. Serena

    Brava! This was the most inspiring moment you’ve delivered yet! THANK YOU for all that you do, and thank you for sharing your talent with the world. Marie, you’re my spirit animal.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      So sweet, Serena! Thank you 🙂

  293. Absolutely amazing! Thank you! My answer: I will build my Contagiously Positive empire 🙂

  294. Pia

    It’s funny how the timing of your emails and subject matter show up in my inbox at the most profound moments in my life. My husband and I very recently left our life and 20 year careers in NY (well, the Universe started slamming quite a few doors on us and made it clear that our time there was up), and moved to southern California. We had a small vacation home in the Coachella Valley and decided to go there to regroup, figure things out. There is nothing related to what we used to do in this area, but we knew we had to do something, so we started our own business. Talk about fear! I was scared out of my mind! But, the 2 things I kept telling myself over and over is this: “I am my mother’s daughter. We will figure this out.”
    You see, my mom was just like yours. In fact, in the eulogy I gave at her funeral was a story about coming home one day and finding my mom on the roof! I asked what she was doing up there and she said, “What do you think I’m doing up here? We have a leak and I’m fixing it!” She was a stay-at-home mom who raised 5 kids. After my dad left us, she never had a lot of money, but she sure had a lot guts and a fierce determination to figure things out, one way or another. Lately, I’ve been thinking back to those days of hardship and remind myself that if my mom could figure things out on her own with very few resources then I sure as hell can figure this out too. She is my inspiration and so are you. I know now, without a doubt, that everything is figureoutable!
    With love, thanks and gratitude,
    Pia

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      What a wonderful story, Pia, thank you so much for sharing. Your mom sounds like she was an incredible lady! xo

  295. Lea

    My new mantra… Everything is figureoutable… Everything. I am so grateful for the gift of your light Marie. Thank you for this and all the ways you touch and inspire us. Much love to you!

  296. Maria

    hi marie,
    this talk was wonderful and touched me on a deep level. I’m working in the field of an NGO during the refugee crisis in europe. I always meet people telling me that things aren’t possible, that it’s too hard, that it takes too long. but together we’re creating right now the change that needs to happen. and it’s so beautiful to be surrounded by souls who believe in that too. thanks a lot.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Beautiful, Maria. Thank you so much for the amazing work you’re doing for refugees and contributing to the real change that’s happening right now. It’s the people that believe who help make it happen. <3

  297. Hi Marie. I wanted to let you know that after watching your show for years, I feel so much gratitude and joy watching you work. Watching this video I felt waves of energy and excitement watching you step out on that stage. It sort of felt like I was with you, like you were bringing all of us with you on this journey. Thank you for being that kind of leader.

    Here’s what I want to figure out: my business, as a conduit for other businesses to grow, specific ones that I personally believe in. I want to figure out how to do it very very well, and live free and focused on what matters.

    LOVE,
    Laura

  298. Hi Marie , That talk was just fantastic . So well done. I’d love to meet your Mother. ! What an amazing lady . I think you may have just saved my life and I’m serious about that. I love you . Big hugs

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      So beautiful, Nida – that means the world to us. Big hugs and lots of love right back.

  299. Wooooow wow wow, Marie! What an impactful talk! You are a Rockstar! Everything is figureoutable and I wanna be you when I grow up 🙂

    I want to help people build the business and life they love. I want to help them become better communicators and overcome their own limiting beliefs by becoming the person they want to be.

    As a language teacher and an intercultural coach, I help every day my students to overcome the language and intercultural barriers they have and learn how to communicate more effectively in their new environment while living abroad.

    What I’ve been figuring out is how to help people who move to Germany to design the life they moved for and become the person they want to be by communicating better in German, connecting with the people in their new environment and building the life they want.

    Marie, you are a huge role model for me. I believe that I can revolutionize the way adults learn foreign languages and spread intercultural awareness about how enriching it is to learn from other cultures and share our own uniqueness with the people around us. Because what I know to be true is:

    The world needs that special gift that only each of us has.

    Love you to the moon!

  300. Silvia

    Congratulations Marie. I am a B-Schooler. I truly enjoyed the Super Soul Session. It´s fantastic to see you there on stage with Oprah. In B-school you talk to us about achieving goals, about following our dreams, and it is an honour to learn that from you, not only from your words but also from your example.
    Loved the story about the airport, a memorable example of how “everything if figureoutable”, the more I think about it the more I like it.

  301. Marie!

    Bravo bravo bravo. Thank you so much for this beautiful act of courage and for wearing the will of the human heart on your sleeve. I’m so touched by your words and so inspired knowing the struggle that preceded them. I’m pretty speechless. So much love.

  302. You rocked it Marie!! Thank you for the great stories about your mom and validating the worth of figuring stuff out yourself without having to go learn about it first (although this is often very helpful!), or find someone else to do it for you. I’ve always believed that “everything is figure-out-able”, just like your mom did. Lots of times there’s nobody else that can do it anyway, so we just have to. Will definitely keep the carry-on bag trick in mind. Did miss a flight once because of that (no luggage stores around though).
    Big hugs!! xoxo

  303. Dear Marie,
    you are a SuperSoul. a SuperPerson. I Just took Bschool and it changed my life. You changed my life. You´ve put a name on any feeling I always felt. ¨Everything is figureoutable¨ is just one more of these names. The fact that you name them it made them real. And feelings are the spark for one´s actions….so I turned in to a firework of new amazing actions building new amazing realities for me and the people around me.
    I would love to see a world where everybody lives in abundance and awareness and spend more time doing what they love, spending time with their families, taking care of our beautiful planet. I want to see a world full of happy people who don’t have time to envy, be jealous, take from others, fight…
    with more people like you we can get closer to it
    and I want to be one of those inspiring lifechangers like you…while living my dream of being a full time mom (and partner) as well as an actress-director-producer of amazing projects.
    this is my dream, my goal, my path, my mission….thanks to you I’m few steps closer…
    thanks dear Marie, and congrats for your talk 😉

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Amazing, Valentina – I have no doubt you’ll be bringing all of those dreams to life. We’re honored to have you as a B-Schooler, and look forward to hearing about the things you’re creating in the world!

  304. Velma

    That was so so good. I needed inspiration that is so real. Crying and snoting in airports. I can relate. I’m trying to decide to continue, suspend or stop. I think I will plan a vacation. Thanks for sharing…

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Yes, Velma! Vacations are so important 🙂

  305. Oh. My. God. You totally hit the point Marie. When you say perfect timing… your soul session talk came at the perfect moment to me.
    I can’t think right now of all the things I could do and change by holding that incredible mantra as true. But I will try to hold it as true.
    I’m sure my life will change for the better by doing so.

    Thank you, thank you, thank you.
    Much much Love!

  306. Pam

    Wow, Marie! that was the best message and delivery! Your mom is inspirational, making you inspirational as well. I will remember that everything is figure-outable as I launch an online jewelry business because the “world needs that special gift that only I have to give.” So I can’t let my age or my lack of computer skills hinder my progress. I did not grow up in a positive environment and I still tend to have a negative outlook but I will keep on going. Thank you.

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Go Pam! Keep on going, and know that we’re cheering you on as you build your jewelry business. It’s all figureoutable! xo

  307. Stephania Chikanova

    Marie,
    past two years were really rough for me, but with your comforting and inspirational wisdom every week on Marie TV I I made my way out of the dark place and today I know that I can make it, and I keep this truth within me anywhere I go.
    Your talk is absolutely breathtaking, UNBELIEVABLE!! Such a generous, bright, phenomenal woman you are. Your words and what you stand for resonates with me deeply. Thank you. Like in Stones song, she comes in colors everywhere) You are rainbow for all of us. Beautiful human being. Fantastic speaker and story-teller. What you shared from the stage was so brave, so whole-hearted and powerful, it got me transfixed.
    Answering your question, I need to live out what I already know to be true and (considering that EVERYTHING IS FIGUREOUTTABLE) make a first step to my own entrepreneurial endeavour and bring social “edutainment” media project to my country and reach the thousands (or millions?) of great people there. Today in Russia we need humanity, sense of connection, faith in human potential more than ever. And I know that my belief that I can make it, my highest energy will help me to make a difference here on Earth.

    Marie and team Forleo, thank you so much for your work! God bless you!

    With all my love,
    Stephania

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      Thank you so much for sharing your kind words with us, Stephania — so incredible. We’re honored to have you tuning in with us, and that our work has been a source of inspiration to you! <3

  308. Hilary

    That was absolutely AMAZING MARIE… thank you so much for sharing such personal experiences. Most of all, thank you for sharing your mother’s guidance and love.
    This powerful story, the meaning behind it and the phrase that ‘everything is figueroutable’ will no doubt positively change the way that people think and who knows where that might lead. xx

  309. Thanks! that was AWESOME!

  310. Hola Marie!
    What a beautiful message! Here are my answers to your questions.
    What would you do?
    I will share my message in a bigger way.
    Who would you become?
    A messenger of God
    What would you heal or transform or transcend?
    I would heal the world by transforming True Love in a relationship something easy to find for everyone.

  311. Marie, woman! I AM SO PROUD OF YOU!! You are the most amazing example of going after your dreams time and time again. I’ve been on a wild ride since winning a scholarship to RHH Live 4 years ago and now I’m doing something I never thought I would do and am SO fulfilled doing it.

    I couldn’t figure out what move to make next in my coaching business, and End Sex Trafficking Day and so I did what shocked most online coach personalities and I quit. I quit without something else launching, without a new product or plan. I just quit. I didn’t have any other courses or ebooks up my sleeves. Golly did that crap scare me. I mean, I spoke at TEDx and was in the USA Today, which = a big EGO boost and a good reputation. To leave that all behind was so nerve-wracking, but I knew I had to do it.

    And as soon as I let go of my “good”thing, something even more wonderful came along, and it certainly wasn’t in the package I was expecting. It was figureoutable, I just had to quit before I figured it out, which is quite a contradiction I know.

    Thank you, thank you, thank you. Your talk, your reinvention, your energy, your positivity, it’s all been here guiding me along…you’re like a little biz angel on my shoulder 😉 I love you dearly and am praying the waves of getting out of your comfort zone, taking action, wisdom, favor and doors of opportunity continue to open for you.

    xo,
    Erin

    • Caroline - Team Forleo

      That’s amazing, Erin! Sometimes we do have to leave something good to get to something great, even though I have no doubt that was completely terrifying at the time. Thank you so much for sharing!

  312. Thank you Marie. It’s so great to hear that someone so successful has the snotty episodes too. I’m so glad you two have worked it out and so grateful that you are brave enough to open up to the world about every day stuff that everyone goes though at one time or another.
    I am figuring out my online business and how to bring enough $ in whilst it is building up with the help of B School ?
    Venessa x

  313. What an inspiration. Thank you Marie

  314. Pavlina Czech

    Thank you so much for this beyond inspiring talk. It touched me deeply. I also really appreciate your idea of the Compassion collective!
    I am going through a big transition now… A new cycle. I must leave my past and start anew. I am prepared in my heart, but fear keeps entering my mind. If everything was figureoutable, I’d leave my job right now. Move out to my dream country, get a well paid representable job that makes me fulfilled, create little joys for myself and other people, help the environment, and find the right masculine match for me. Who would not resemble any of the toxic men from the past.
    I would be free, happy and share my experience.
    Thank you for inspiring me to think that it might be figureoutable.

  315. kat

    Killed it! Love how you worked your Jersey in;) The message was powerful and poignant and perfectly you!

  316. I have a post it note on my computer that says ‘I believe in my ability to figure things out. If I do I am seeking the next level, if I don’t I’m settling’.
    Thank you for reinforcing my belief in my ability to figure things out, I often fall short of the mark however my dreams and goals rise to the surface quickly to put me back on track.

  317. I cried too!
    Thank you Marie for sharing your stories, they’re so powerful. For me, right now, I want to become a writer and a great communicator. At the moment I may not be super clear on how it’ll progress into a business, but I’ll keep moving forward and clarity will come. After all, everything is figuroutable. 😉

  318. You made me cry and laugh like millions of times. Thank you, Marie.

  319. LA

    This was a “timely” talk for me. Today was tough. I’m realizing just how removed I am from