Doesn’t matter what you make, write, knit, code, film, paint, perform, produce, sculpt, simmer, invent, teach, chisel, craft, bake or build…
There’s a high possibility that at some point in your creative career, you’ve had this experience.
You make something truly awesome.
We’re talking spectacular. Soul-shaking. Next-level, cosmically significant sorta stuff.
It goes out for public consumption and you think, “This is my best work yet. People are going to go nuts for this!!”
As you anxiously await the praise / applause / orders / reviews / congrats / comments / shares ____ (fill in the blank with the validation of your choice), a sinking reality sets in.
Rather than the critical acclaim or endless cha-ching…
Yesterday, I set my alarm for 5:13 AM.
No. I wasn’t catching a flight to some exotic location. And no, I wasn’t waking up that early just for funsies.
The truth is that I had a massive, almost brain exploding amount of work to get done in a very tight time frame.
Now before you even think about pouring some haterade assuming I’m one of those lucky people who naturally wakes up at the crack of dawn, please don’t.
Because on Saturday, just two days prior, I finally rolled out of bed around 11:45 am.
Josh and I had an indulgent night out with friends and after a pretty intense work week, I had zero guilt about sleeping in.
So what’s this have to do with you? Well today on MarieTV we’re tackling a hot-button topic that’s been argued about for years.
It’s a question I’ve personally wrestled with in my own quest to be as productive, happy and healthy as humanly possible during my precious time on Planet Earth.
We’re Talking Early Risers vs. Late Owls in a Classic Productivity Battle
Pay attention here because even if you’re perfectly happy with your own sleep patterns, the people around you may not be.
Crocuses are in full force right now, the weather is finally breaking here in New York City and — a brand new season of Game Of Thrones has just premiered!
Life is good, and I’m grateful.
But when I think back to my earlier self, I often had a hard time enjoying simple pleasures because so much of my mental and emotional energy was focused (umm, obsessed) with figuring out my life’s passion.
In other words, I spent an extraordinary amount of energy trying to figure out exactly what I was supposed to do with my life.
After much self-torture, buckets of tears, loads of “tests” and hundreds of hours of research, I thankfully came to some useful realizations around this idea of finding one’s passion.
If you’ve ever struggled to find your passion in life, today’s episode of MarieTV was made for you.
Most of the time, we only get to hear about people’s successes.
The highlight reels, so to speak. We see the big moments. The impressive stuff.
While I’m all for celebrating wins and focusing on the positive, it’s vital that we don’t feel shame about our mistakes or missteps either.
Because let’s face it. We all stumble and fall. We all have errors in judgment. We all do things from time to time that, in retrospect, make us cringe and say “What was I thinking?”
The truth is, in order to experience growth and progress in any area of life, you’ve got to take risks and put yourself out there. Consistently.
That means you’re going to stumble. You’ll find yourself embarrassed from time to time. And yes, you will have flops. Guaranteed.
The only real question to ask yourself is this.
Waking up in a pool of your own blood isn’t something most of us aspire to.
But when you constantly push beyond your limits in an effort to “get ahead” that’s exactly where you might wind up.
Combine our change-the-world ambitions with a diligent work ethic and 24/7 technology, and we’ve got a recipe for chronic exhaustion.
That’s why it’s so important to me that you watch today’s episode of MarieTV.
My guest is the legendary Arianna Huffington, author of the new book Thrive, and she’s here to help us redefine success on our own terms.