“Wow. Everybody and their sister seems to be a ________ these days.”
(Fill in the blank with life or health coach, marketing expert, blogger, etc.)
The moment we dive into a new field or industry and get to know the competitive landscape, it’s almost inevitable that we have these kinds of thoughts.
Doubt and fear quickly follow as we wonder, “How on earth am I going to stand out in this overcrowded market?” This is exactly what Nani, a 45 year old mom from Hawaii, was struggling with as it relates to her new massage business.
Of course, knowing how to articulate our uniqueness is a challenge for many of us — no matter how long we’ve been in the game. And that’s why I’m excited to share today’s episode of MarieTV.
Almost all deeply meaningful creative endeavors goes through a similar journey.
You start out on fire. You’re high on passion and possibilities. You could not be more jazzed about your new _________ (business, job, relationship, workout regimen, spiritual practice, life philosophy, eating habit, etc.)
This is that thing you’ve been waiting for. That life-changing pivot point that’s going to change e-v-e-r-y-thing. From the moment you wake up until your head hits the pillow, you’re obsessed with your new “love.”
But then, you hit a rough patch. Unexpected challenges and unforeseen complications take you off track. Suddenly, everything that was going so great has morphed into a hot, frustrating mess.
Your energy tanks. Doubt creeps in. You can’t help but think…
“Maybe this wasn’t such a great idea after all.”
Just got back from a sweet little trip to Portland, Oregon. Hadn’t been there since I was a Nike Master Trainer years ago.
But unlike earlier visits, this time I had more of a chance to enjoy the city and culture — which is AWESOME!!
Dazzling hikes in the forest, mouth-watering meals and great conversations made it a pretty spectacular weekend.
One thing I really appreciated was the heart and humanity I felt throughout the city — especially from small businesses.
From tiny food carts to huge antique shops to a brand new boutique built entirely around artisan butter…
There was a strong sense of local pride and love baked into every offering.
And in my opinion, boldly expressing the heart and soul of your business makes a tremendous difference — to yourself, your team, your customers and the world.
“Oh boy, do I even have anything worthwhile to say?”
“Nobody’s going to want to read this anyway. What’s the point…”
“I have no official credentials or fancy degrees. Who do I think I am to write any of this?”
If you’re human and want to write, produce, or create anything — chances are you’ve battled these kinds of thoughts, too.
Fear and insecurity seem to go hand in hand with creativity and self-expression.
I’ve been publishing my ideas for well over a decade now and I still hear versions of those thoughts every week when I sit down to write my email to you, or when I work on MarieTV.
If the “Who am I to write this?!?” fear has been stopping you from sharing your ideas, today’s MarieTV is for you.
Today’s episode is a real eye-opener. Especially if you’re a parent, hope to someday be a parent or — you have parents. Honestly, I believe this show is a must watch for us all.
Because no matter what stage of life you’re at, I can’t imagine you wouldn’t want a more loving and connected relationship with your family.
After all, any iota of “success” (however you define that word) can be empty and meaningless without people you love to share it with.
The other reason I think you’ll love this episode is the refreshing level of honesty and transparency of my guest, Dr. Shefali Tsabary, author of the NY Times bestseller The Conscious Parent.
She offers some delightfully contrarian ideas about parenting, and she’s completely candid about how challenging this path can be — even for her. (Which her daughter is all too quick to point out )
Finally, this interview highlights a skill that I believe is the key to greater happiness and fulfillment for us all. The ability to tune in (and listen to) our own inner voice.