How To Make A Comeback After You’ve Let People Down

Your stomach is in knots.

You wish you could turn back the clock and have a do-over.

Your mind doesn’t stop asking, “What the heck were you thinking!?!”

Unfortunately, what’s done is done. The truth is, you screwed up. You made a mistake.

And now you’ve got to figure out how to make things right and have people trust and believe in you again.

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You’re hopeful, but deep down you wonder…

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Feeling depressed – like something’s missing? Try this.

I had no idea I was going to write about this today, but when I thought about whether or not I should mention it . . .

I don’t feel like I have a choice as I’m still pretty shaky.

Sunday afternoon we were hit pretty bad in a car accident.

Josh, myself and Kuma were driving down a quiet side street here in Venice when a driver sped through a back alleyway — without stopping — and slammed into the side of our car.

The impact was horrific. Glass shattered everywhere, and in an instant our car was forced underneath another parked car on the side of the road.

Thank God, we’re all fine (save nasty bruises, soreness, totaled cars, Kuma peed on my pants – LOL etc.).

The most upsetting thing though is how my mind keeps flashing these “alternate reality” scenarios in my head. These horrible, mini movies where if it were just a few seconds off . . .

Either Josh, Kuma or myself may not have survived. That’s really is the worst part for me — everytime I shut my eyes or try to rest, they come up.

So before we get into today’s episode, I invite you to take a moment to connect with and express your genuine love for the dearest people in your life.

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How To Get Motivated

Have you ever tried to “get motivated” to do something, but nothing works?

You start to feel horrible, like you’re falling behind in your business or career.

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You get embarrassed to meet with friends because you don’t want to talk about what you’ve been doing or more accurately. . . what you’ve not been doing.

Yeah, I’ve totally been there too.

If you’ve ever felt the shame, frustration and humiliation that comes from being stuck and lost in your life, today’s new MarieTV episode is for you.

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The Dangers of Thinking Too Much

Do you ever do this?

You’ve got a new project that you’re really excited about.

Could be anything from rearranging your panty drawer to launching a million dollar business. You choose.

You’re so darn pumped that your face hurts from continuous grinning and friends think that someone must have spiked your lemonade.

You’re about to get going and…

It happens.

You start overthinking.

Let’s go with the panty drawer example, shall we? You say to yourself,

“Hmmm. What is the best way to rearrange this panty drawer?

Thongs upfront?

By color?

Butt coverage?

Sexy first?

Granny panties in the back?”

Before you know it, you’ve over thought this to the point that you’re terrified of making a mistake. You throw all your panties in the air and collapse in tears and despair.

Now obviously, I’m stretching this a bit. Panty drawer re-orgs rarely cause meltdowns.

But you get the point.

Thinking too much sucks.

Literally. It can suck the life right out you.

While planning and strategic thinking have their place, I’ve found the most profitable thing to do 99% of the time is to stop overthinking and just get going, especially when you’re starting a brand new project.

It’s way easier to adjust your actions as you go than to get drunk over thinking until your idea loses steam or worse, you’ve lost your window of opportunity.

So the lesson for today?

Stop overthinking.  Taking action is good.  Granny panties should be chucked and not organized.

Why Faith Is Essential to Entrepreneurial Success

Do you ever wonder whether or not you should move ahead with a business idea? Do you dream of having the life of other successful entrepreneurs?

Do you procrastinate on your big dreams and find that time is passing by faster and faster?

Many of us make the mistake of suppressing our creative desires because we’re afraid.

Mostly, we’re afraid of failing and looking foolish.

We play it safe and get stuck in our comfort zone because we falsely think we should know exactly how our venture will turn out before we take any action.

Well guess what? The “playing it safe” mentality is deadly to your success.

You have a creative truth that lives inside of you.

Taking action on that truth before you have proof of how it will turn out is the secret to living powerfully and authentically.

When you have faith in yourself and your dreams, and take action from your truth, your inner desires become outer realities faster than you can imagine.

Faith is the essential characteristic that all successful entrepreneurs share. 

You’ve got to start exercising your faith muscles if you want to use your business as a vehicle to make the difference in the world you are meant to make.

Here are 3 key ideas to help you strengthen your faith muscles.

1. Your Ideas Are Here for A Reason.

Isn’t it wild how passionate and alive you become when you talk about growing your business and sharing your creations with the world?

That sense of aliveness around your ideas is an indicator that you’re meant to take action.

It’s a signal from a greater intelligence to turn your dreams into a reality.

God (The Universe, Source, etc.) gave you unique talents and gifts for a specific reason. You are designed to create and serve others.

And as an entrepreneur, you have an incredible opportunity to use your business as a force for good and make a tremendous difference in the world.

Have faith in your ideas and take action on them.

Otherwise, you’re squandering the beautiful gifts your Creator has blessed you with.

2. The Universe Is Always Supporting You.

The Universe is always supporting you.

If you’re present in the moment (vs. lost in the chatter of your mind) you’ll always see the perfect opportunity to move your business (and life) ahead.

I pay close attention to what shows up in my world.

Whether it’s a magazine article that leads me to a website, successful entrepreneurs I’m inspired by, a workshop I feel compelled to take, or a big scary (a.k.a. exciting) opportunity that requires me to step up and play bigger, I do my best to take action as quickly as possible.

Take a look in your own life.

Are you lost in the conversation in your mind or are you in sync with your truth and your Universe?

What opportunities are in front of you right now, just waiting to be claimed?

3. Motion Beats Meditation.

What if you started playing with the idea that it was impossible for you to make a mistake?

What if you couldn’t make a “wrong move?”

What if all the time you spend thinking about whether or not you’ll do your project “right” (whatever that means) is just an old habit that keeps you stuck in dissatisfaction land?

In my experience, I’ve found that faith-based motion beats meditation every time.

While I may not know what the heck I’m doing at first, consistent action allows me to gain knowledge and experience fast.

Once I get moving, I’m unstoppable.

 

Here’s a secret: It’s a heck-of-a lot easier to change direction when you have momentum behind you vs. trying to get something started from ground zero.

 

As always, your entrepreneurial success begins and ends with you.

As Dr. Martin Luther King says, “Take the first step in faith.  You don’t have to see the whole staircase.  Just take the first step.”

Remember, having faith means recognizing the value of what you are here to contribute to the world and allowing your actions to be grounded in that truth.